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19Black · 2021-11-28T13:27:32+00:00

You’re placing too much emphasis on money. Women don’t care about money unless you’re spending it and live a lifestyle of conspicuous consumption. An unattractive guy in a Jaguar or Maserati is going to get far more attention and results than an unattractive guy with maxed out retirement accounts.

Education and setting yourself up financially is important, but not as important as being attractive when it comes to seduction. Don’t let your appearance fall by the wayside.

iambabyshark · 2021-11-28T14:36:58+00:00

Looks aren't important. They help you get your foot in the door occasionally, but women don't really care about them. The mistake a lot of people make is they assume women have the same desires as men. They think if they hit the gym enough a naked lady will fall into their lap. That's wrong, for us men 80% of what we want is in appearance, the other 20% being what she brings to the table. For women, it's the opposite. A man's "boobs" aren't his muscles, it's his value.

When you first start talking to a girl, it's like you're a flat-chested girl with a acne-ridden face. However, as you interact and covertly let her know you're a man of value, it's like your acne clears up. It's like you just grew a huge set of boobs. You're getting into a top uni? Let her know. You're the leader of your friend group? Let her know. That's how you win attraction.

5_7pickup · 2021-11-28T18:31:16+00:00

Everybody here telling you to work on yourself which is important but nobody tells you how to market yourself.

Who gives a shit if youve developed an amazing product if nobody knows about it.

That is the rate limiting step for men in modern dating. Everybody knows the path to develop an amazing product but very few know how to market it.

jeinejsnshvn6666666 · 2021-11-28T18:51:01+00:00

Facial surgery.
Massive truckloads of money at the very least you need to make 6 figures.
Get to less than 10% body fat
Use your money to buy very expensive clothes and stylist choices.

This sub can’t accept reality and can’t admit that looks are extremely important to women (any guy who’s actually ugly understands this but these fucking monkeys can’t so ya ya). But yeah women are extremely superficial and will judge you off of what you have rather than who you are. Women don’t give a shit about personality, every girl I know that’s in a relationship gets treated poorly and as a second class citizen. Women will preach that other bullshit but then go right back to the chaos.

If you’re ugly just go enjoy life, women will never give you a shot because there’s billions of other choices. This sub will try to shame you and try to push everything on you because again women are cowards and can’t handle anything even remotely close to responsibility. They like to think women are perfect and do no wrong and just take the dismissive route and blame men.

Anyways good luck, a friendly reminder, women will come and go but money will always be there.

Pimp_juice0001 · 2021-11-28T14:59:13+00:00

Speaking as pimp with a full stable ...handle ya business, take care of yourself and learn how to be confident with the ladies ...it's that simple ...it has always worked for me and has nothing to do with the fact that I am 6'4 230 lbs of pure shredded muscle with a full beard and an engineering degree , I assure you. Right now the sauce has chosen you, spit game like a Mississippi pimp ya dig ? Yeeeeerrrr

Pimp_juice0001 · 2021-11-28T17:20:24+00:00

You do that, if you make focus on making yourself better, people notice ....

bandsupjay · 2021-11-28T18:32:51+00:00

Finances don’t help with attraction, but get your finances straight. It’s all about how you make a girl feel. You said you have the personality covered, so learn how to talk to people and women if you don’t already and improve your social skills. Try to learn how to be charismatic and make people feel special by listening to them and putting the convo on them. Learn some seduction for your dates and your good but don’t go too overboard bro. Too many people just stick there heads in the dirt and never come out. Go out there and experience. Everything’s trial and error because look: you’re going to go out there and think you’re all that but then in event something goes wrong or doesn’t go as planned, so then you have to re improvise and learn from your mistakes. And nothings wrong with that, it’s just too many guys study study study and no work. Study some seduction not too much and go out there and try shit. Incorporate some of your own stuff too, don’t just copy a whole seduction book, you know. We’re all unique and you gotta be different

For your looks just get a good cleanup, rock a good haircut and hit the gym. Get lean and put some mass on. Looks don’t matter too much but it gets u in the door, so u gotta be looking kinda appropriate. Other than that carry yourself with confidence and don’t get a ego u know lol. Make sure you’re not too arrogant so the girl feels safe, I find that works the best. I’ve been humble and girls are more receptive to me then ever lol. I guess it’s because I’m no longer hungry or subtly showing that I have a low key motive. U know women, they can sense that shit. Just be calm cool collected and easygoing

nupollution · 2021-11-28T21:33:41+00:00

Maximize what you’ve got physically with good grooming. Get a good hair cut from a salon, learn which products to use to style it. Use moisturizer on your face and lotion on dry bits of body. Learn to trim and file your nails and nip your cuticles one a week. Tweeze your brows and other unsightly hair. Exfoliate.

Style goes a long way. Find a style that you like and is becoming to your shape. The thrift store is a great way to get a good wardrobe without breaking the bank. Don’t underestimate the importance of shoes. Tasteful accessories like rings or bandanas or a nice jacket can go a long way and elevate things you already own.

Make an effort to be empathetic. Ask lots of questions when talking to someone. Let go of trivial things even if you think you’re “right”. The phrase “oh, that’s so interesting! Tell me more?” Goes a long way. Having a good personality means more than being confident or funny. Be thoughtful, kind, and generous.

TheBurgessChurchill · 2021-11-28T22:52:31+00:00

The problem I see with a lot of PUA methods is that they give vague advice. I've tested a lot of the techniques and theories and quite frankly they don't work. Some of them do work but you have to get through a lot of bullshit to find them. If you send me a direct message I can help you.

iambrian81 · 2021-11-29T04:15:00+00:00

Get jacked and take improv comedy. Fit dude who can make women laugh is valuable to women.

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