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[–]thementalyogi 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When you're swimming, "accidentally" lose your trunks in the pool. Climb out right in front of her and act all embarrassed.
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[–]throwaway_womenstuff 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the way
[–]NinjaTurtle2077 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I met my current girlfriend at the aquatic Center where we happen to swim together, she was incredibly beautiful and I had my eyes on her. we then moved to the sauna and had a bit of a private time to chat and get to know each other then we clicked more and exchanged numbers now she is my girl fiend
Maybe spend some private time with her in your swimming Center think of moving her to an area like jacuzzi or sauna or the cafe etc and just chat away and build on the chemistry and take it from there
[–]RainbowChardonnay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (42 children) | Copy Link
You are too old to date this woman. 14 ears is too much and it’s not good for her development to be pursued by a guy your age. Think about her needs and leave her gently alone.
[–]Potz666 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So long as you are open about your intentions there is nothing wrong with this and the relationship can be mutually fulfilling and beneficial to both of you. Don't let other people tell you how to live your life, go after what you want and try to help others along the way.
Society will always try to push you to fit into its box if you are a man and it doesn't give a shit about you or what you want, you are a utility. It's more beneficial to society for you to date a single mommy your own age and provide for her regardless of what you as an individual want. If you want to date a single mommy, different story. This is where the trope of men shouldn't date woman x years younger than them comes from (so long as she is above 18).
[–]RainbowChardonnay -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dating women more than 10 years younger is predatory and can have negative consequences for her life.
[–]Potz666 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dating another person of any age/sex/gender can have negative consequences for anyone's life. The age gap isn't what makes a relationship predatory or not. Both sexes can be predatory in how they date. It depends heavily on what each parties intentions are going in.
[–]RainbowChardonnay -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Disagree. A 22 year old woman is practically a girl. She probably doesn’t know how to set boundaries yet. Leave her alone.
[–]EpicJohnCenaFan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bro, just shut up. The most high value guys in the world are the rich guys in their 30s and they have 19 year old girl friends.
I doubt you can actually get sex from young hot chicks.
[–]Forsaken-Candidate-2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it's creepy in those situations as well.
[–]RainbowChardonnay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Classy!
[–]mmmkaaaayyy 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
LMAO. Knew there'd be someone like this to chime in.
Gotta keep you creepers in check 😉
[–]cringelawd -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
shes 22. youre 35. why would she be interested? im 25 and youd be too old for me as well. accept it and move on.
[–]mmmkaaaayyy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Username checks out.
[–]cringelawd 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sure thing, [deleted].
[–]Narcan9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Because older men are more interesting, have life experience, have their shit together, and are better in bed. I've been pursued several times by grad students. Had an intern at work from another department find me on Facebook to ask me out. Had a 23yo FWB who loved hooking up for years.
Despite the narcissistic view from a few young women here, many enjoy older men.
[–]cringelawd -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
i dont have a single friend my age thats into big age gaps. keep coping or better yourself so you can pursure a partner your age, its not that hard.
[–]Narcan9 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Imagine how bitter you'll be in another 5 years and 30 pounds when guys stop noticing you. Tie one down while you can.
[–]cringelawd -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
damn it did not take much to bait the incel out of you. not surprised.
[–]Forsaken-Candidate-2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's most likely not interested as you're so much older than her. All the things you've taken as hints are just her being nice to you, she's 22 year old girl that's most likely too inexperienced to know men like you take it as a sign of interest. Its very unlikely that it means anything, I'd advise you to move on. If you express interest and she isn't interested, you'll come off as an old creep..
[–]ChadCyrus 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link
Simp.
[–]RainbowChardonnay -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
I’m actually a woman looking out for women. This sub is full of creeeeeeps.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
The people here are more respectful and accepting of boundaries and rejection better than the rest of the world. If someone says no thank you it not interested we move on. Happens all the time to even the best. Men learning game is also good for women as it gives us options and we don't have to harass women or stay in bad relationships where both sides resent each other. It's healthy.
[–]RainbowChardonnay -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
Respectful hasn’t been my experience of people on this sub. Calling anyone a simp isn’t respectful. Going after a woman who is 14 years younger isn’t respectful. Women are socialized to not have boundaries, so let’s be gentle with them and help them take care of themselves.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
If a 22 year old girl who could have a college degree can't make her own decisions or take care of herself that's a her problem not an us problem.
[–]RainbowChardonnay -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
I see. So you boys don’t need to care about a woman’s well being as long as you can get it wet?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
I see you think sex traumatizes people 😂
[–]RainbowChardonnay -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Sex can be extremely traumatic for women. Getting wrapped up with an old man can come with significant opportunity costs.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
You're in the wrong sub, hun.
[–]RainbowChardonnay0 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
No scrote. I’m here for the women.
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Enjoy your white knighting, mam. I hope you have a good casual sex experience at some point.
[–]RainbowChardonnay1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
For most women, “good casual sex” is an oxymoron. You all need to understand your skills are mostly in your imagination.
[–][deleted]1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The feedback I get tells me otherwise, but I doubt you'll believe me. I do believe some of these guys are just going at it for their own pleasure, but there is nothing I can do about that. I can only control myself. If you want to fly out I can prove it 😂
Right - you just want to get it wet
I wouldn't say just want to get it wet. Of course most guys want to have sex, we're programmed for it. But say you flew out and we didn't vibe like that, I wouldn't kick out (or anyone I didn't vibe with sexually). You can still treat them with class and have fun other ways and you can never have too many friends. Men are not raging boners looking for the next hole to fuck 😂 you don't hear about the parts when we're chillin with the bros or just watching TV because that isn't attractive and being a mystery works better. Let her mind wander. We try to present ourselves as high value as possible so we leave out the lame stuff or the stuff that can lose attraction.
A 36 year old isn’t high value to a 22 year old.
That's up to the 22 year old to decide 🙃
A 36 yo man going after a 22 yo woman isn’t high value behavior. It’s actually his decision if he wants to be high value and behave accordingly.
It's his decision of they're having sex or not?
Calling guys creeps isn't respectful
Don’t act creepy if you don’t want to be a creep
[–]ChadCyrus 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Classic, women don't have accountability statement. You think a 22 year old woman is a child. That is horrifically sexist. If a 22 year old man has sex with a 36 year old woman it's the woman being empowered. But vice versa is predatory because women have no agency? The western world used to be about sexual liberation and now it's turned into reversed sexual repression among consenting adults.
Ok, CHAD
[–]Narcan9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They don't need your help or narcissism.
Mmm so much great feedback Thank you
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