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dontbanmeagaindudes · 2021-09-28T20:59:42+00:00

It happens.

Cindersxo · 2021-09-28T21:06:09+00:00

Not the best sign, but you never know… Have you been in touch with her since?

Environmental_Work63 · 2021-09-28T21:12:42+00:00

Looks like she doesn't want to be friends. She wants to be business partners instead.

KingoftheNorth412 · 2021-09-28T21:22:22+00:00

If that happens again, shake her hand but tickle her palm with your finger while shaking. It’s a hail mary but might make her laugh and get you closer to attraction. Long shot for sure though. Might be best to move on.

TheConnoissuer · 2021-09-28T21:25:35+00:00

It's over. You didn't escalate during those hours of talking. Should have made a move at least.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-28T21:30:37+00:00

If you don't break the physical touch barrier - you're just another nice guy ..

Headed to the dreaded friend zone.

Which is exactly what it looks like happened.

Should you have made a move?

Confident men make moves and go after what you want.

You came across as either not interested in her..

Just liking her like a friend..

Or not confident in yourself to make a move..

All these = failing.

AelfredRex · 2021-09-28T21:34:47+00:00

It's a clear signal she ain't into you sexually. If you had made a move, you woulda got less than a handshake. Live and learn.

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2021-09-28T21:54:38+00:00

....the sexual tension...wasn't there.

Dakessian · 2021-09-28T22:08:29+00:00

Did you shake her hand? Or did you go fresh prince?

mydicksore · 2021-09-28T22:13:11+00:00

you can’t be afraid of escalating situations or you’ll find yourself in situations like these, worst case scenario is she says no and you apologize, you got nothing to lose

FullColorPsycho · 2021-09-28T22:15:04+00:00

Everyone has different speeds, if you felt the chemistry was really there and it was clear that it was an actual date (you being interested in her), then she’s probably just moving slowly. Don’t be deterred, keep doing what you’re doing and just pretend like you don’t care about getting a handshake.

Any advice we could give totally depends on the details of the situation though. You haven’t given us enough details for us to comment further or provide you with anything more than guesses. Provide more detail if you’d like better answers/feedback.

ericcozart · 2021-09-28T22:18:17+00:00

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muff_marauder · 2021-09-28T22:40:37+00:00

We ended the date just talking for hours and hours.

Your first date should never "naturally end".

The date should end abnormally and abruptly before one hour has passed, at the height of the fun, when YOU decide you've got to get home.

This creates an incredible amount of tension and desperation on her end, leading to her wanting another date or even to go straight back to your place or hers.

ProfessorZoom80 · 2021-09-28T22:45:50+00:00

U should put your dick in her hand istead of yours ahhahha

Yenyenyeneh · 2021-09-28T22:47:19+00:00

Female here. I’d prolly do the same thing if I think you are a potential for a serious relationship. If I think you are just good for a one-night kinda fun, I prolly would have just jumped on you 🤷‍♀️

lookintothefuturem8 · 2021-09-28T22:59:29+00:00

She wasnt into you. Body language and chemistry are good indicators but not always trustworthy.

That is, if I like the girl I'll always make a move. A few times I saved bad dates by a nice makeout sesh. Much much better than not making a move and forever thinking if you should have

Jamesdoink · 2021-09-29T15:08:00+00:00

Better than a kick im the ass. 😂😂😂

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