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[–]TheTruth221 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
lol
if they ignoring u in public then just walk off
[–]prize_biscuit-5 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Like I told another user, if thats how you choose to live your life, and are content living that way, then have at it, man. What do I know about living modestly.
[–]AelfredRex 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yes, she is telling you "No." If you keep insisting to talk to her, you've gone into the Creep Zone and just make it worse. Show some respect.
[–]prize_biscuit 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Haha, that mentality won't help you much I'm afraid. If you're still at the point where you spend time worrying about being creepy then this won't work for you. Even if you verbally know what to say and do the woman won't fall for it, because your vibe won't match your words.
[–]AelfredRex 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That mentality got me married. Your mentality will get you arrested. If she ain't into you, she ain't into you. If you push it, that's just harassment.
[–]prize_biscuit 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
That mentality got me married.
Exactly. It got you married to the first person who showed interest in you. Not exactly what I'd call a victory but to each their own. Whereas my mentality allows me to actually be selective with which women I take home.
Your mentality will get you arrested.
Of course I realize there are always risks involved with cold approaching women. I thought that went without saying.That particular risk is rather small but its still a risk I guess.
[–]DryAdhesiveness6579 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dude this is such bad advice. just keep talking AT people. This is why women don’t like cold approaches because of people like you.
[–]RhabarberJack 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How to be a creep 101 yikes
[–]appmanga 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But there are times where you'll try and start a conversation, but she'll just ignore you/give you the cold shoulder. She doesn't want to talk to you. If this happens, don't give up so easily!
Real life isn't some cheesy rom com. If a woman is ignoring you that's a fairly big indicator that she's not interested in you or any damn thing you have to say. Nobody likes a pain in the ass, and there are other women in the world.
[–]prize_biscuit 4 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
"Cheesy rom com"? I have no idea what you're talking about. Get a grip, and get off the shrooms.
[–]appmanga 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have no idea what you're talking about.
I'm not surprised.
And I think a guy telling people to act like a deranged stalker telling me to "get a grip" might be the funniest thing I read all day.
[–]faisalnazzal3 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So creepy bro
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
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shrug You do you, I guess. But honestly that just sounds depressing. Only getting to fuck women who were already into you all along. There's no seduction involved there. I don't think I could live like that.
That being said you do seem content with doing things that way, so I guess there are people who are suited to that. Power to you then.
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only getting to fuck women who were already into you all along. There's no seduction involved there.
Agree with you.. some of the best lays or best girl friends you meet are sometimes the hardest to get at first.
Who knows.. woman's mood change by the minute.. cold than hot in an instant.
You often get her out of her bad mood funk that she initially starts out in, then a minute later she's giving you all sorts of IOIs and is super interested, then you get the number.. and you bang her that very same night.
[–]randomdegen 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Has this ever actually resulted in anything for you? Seems to lack basic social calibration/awareness. You're basically trapping them into listening to you after they clearly have no interest in talking to you, likely annoying them and making them uncomfortable.
[–]prize_biscuit2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Lmao "has this ever resulted in anything". Its what I've been usually doing over the years to pull women who are definitely not interested in the beginning. This and variations of it. It requires being able to read social cues, because you need to be able to tell that the woman isn't interested, rather than playing hard to get, else you'll end up shooting yourself in the foot.
Some of the best lays or best girl friends you meet are sometimes the hardest to get at first.
All what the other guy said, it takes social calibration to know if she's not interested or just playing hard to get or a Maybe girl .. that can go either way to a Yes or a No girl.
[–]prize_biscuit1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
So yeah, there is social calibration involved, but it serves a very different purpose from what you seem to think. Calibration is how I determine whether the woman is genuinely not interested or just indecisive, and allows me to adapt my approach depending on which it is. But if the woman is clearly disinterested and I back off because of it, then there's no calibration involved there. All I'm doing is giving up prematurely on a woman I might have still had a chance with.
[–]Apprehensive_Yam9163 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
dude based on your ur other replies dudes like you are the sole fucking reason why girls keep their guard up. if she ignores you, that clearly means she doesn’t want to talk to you and you should leave her alone. continuing to talk to someone who doesn’t want to talk back is extremely creepy and rude
[–]prize_biscuit 4 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
dudes like you are the sole fucking reason why girls keep their guard up
So? Then let them keep their guard up. If you know what you're doing when you approach then that won't matter. Only losers complain about other guys making it "hard" for them.
Anyway, you seem to be mistaking my post for something that it sorely isn't. This isn't about the woman playing hard to get or secretly wanting you to try harder or anything like that. Like I said, those things get covered more than enough here so I wouldn't need to make a post addressing that.
[–]Apprehensive_Yam9163 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
are you actually fucking retarded? read social cues. If you approach a girl, she clearly doesn’t want to talk and you give her space, that’s totally fine. If you approach her, she clearly doesn’t want to talk, but you keep bugging her anyway, that is universally fucking creepy. If you don’t understand why that’s creepy and wrong then idk what to tell you bro, you got some problems
Lol ok, stay a loser then. But if I ever hear you blaming your problems on your looks again I'm gonna curbstomp ya.
[–]Apprehensive_Yam9163 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah ok stay a fucking creeper bro. don’t worry about me dawg i do just fine
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Only losers complain about other guys making it "hard" for them.
The guys that are complaining about other guys making it hard for them are 99.9% of the time delusional because they're not approaching girls out in public anyways.
A lot of them do actually approach but they're still losers. A winner doesn't complain about the situation. He just finds a way to adapt and make it work for him.
100% true.. people ask for advice in this sub, I give advice and then they come up with every excuse in the book on why "they can't do it".
[–]hh7139 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OP giving off rape vibes
[–]j2bbt238 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sheesh
It just takes social calibration to know if she's really not interested in you (a No girl) or just playing hard to get or a Maybe girl .. that can go either way to a Yes or a No girl.
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