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[–]whip-in-hand1 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
If she already has a boyfriend, then I would say to leave her and find someone else
[–]younngtrouble 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
100% agree. This is what I did, I’m just more so interested in why a girl would do that at all
[–]dobbs1997 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
she might just be craving some male attention…some girls who have boyfriends will still give you the number but only text you for the attention…or she just didn’t know how to tell you nah so she just gave you the number
[–]younngtrouble 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel this, this could be true
[–]seeingred81 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This could be a deniability thing. Perhaps she wanted to give you her number, but didn't want to feel like a cheating slut. This is sort of like a girl saying she will go back to your place with you but she isn't putting out... when we all know if a girl goes over to a dude's house in the middle of the night SOMETHING is likely to happen. She just doesn't want to feel cheap.
[–]younngtrouble 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Interesting, I’m well aware of this phenomena but didn’t think to apply it here… great take 💯
[–]ManginaSniper 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You've just learned a valuable lesson on female behavior.
[–]rm_-rf_Trump 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They "monkey branch" This goes deep into the 💊
[–]PuroPincheGains 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Attention, and she's probably not all that loyal to her bf... I mean, I wouldn't consider my girl to be loyal if she was flirting with dudes and giving out her number lol
[–]egmoneyjr20 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
She definitely will respond to you.
In my opinion she was creating plausible deniability like a lot of women do.
This sounds like something along of the lines of an ASD/anti slut shaming tactic.
She could’ve been trying to make herself come off as less slutty.
Also a test to see if you’re to the type of guy that will proceed anyway.
And don’t cuff this girl. Just have fun and that’s it because if she’s monkey branching this hard to you from her current bf, she’s not loyal at all and will do it to you.
[–]younngtrouble 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Damn well it prolly doesn’t help that I started the text I sent off with, “Wassup Ms. Loyal” lmfao 🤣
And of course, never cuff a girl that cheats for you, they’ll do it to you too. Good insight
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Wassup Ms. Loyal”
Jeezuz. You literally couldn't have sent a worse text than that.
Are you purposely trying not to get laid?
You need to treat her like a single girl and NEVER bring up her bf again.
[–]younngtrouble 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂 aye man we’ll get em next time lol
[–]TheTruth221 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
she's open but trying to not come off as being as easy
I’m just tryna be side guy
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Dude. It's obvious. She'll cheat on him if you're special. Also obvious that she isn't love of your life material. She has no loyalty.
Rule of four. Hit it four times with charm and don't take no for an answer. If she hasn't agreed to a date at that point cut bait.
[–]Sokalb5 points 4 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
What’s the rule of 4, ain’t never heard of it
[–]younngtrouble 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me neither, just looked it up and learned a little bit about the Supreme Court lmao
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
You don't take no for an answer four times. Shows you.arent a quitter and really.like her. After that it's creepy and you should stop.
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She's just a woman. She doesn't dictate your worth.
All at once. invitation - rejection - charming invitation - rejection - funny invitation - rejection - one last attempt and then change focus.
If she seems interested, she may want to be pursued by a charming man. I wouldn't wait months for any women...ever. A series of charming and persuasive invites. Then its time to move on. Some women will suck up all your attention if you let them.
[–]younngtrouble 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Not a bad method at all, shows that rejection doesn’t phase you.
Would depend on HOW she responds with the rejections tho, that is, if she even decides to respond at all..
I just told her that she didn’t even need to respond to this text… to just keep my number and hit my line when she’s ready 🤷🏽♂️
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She's pretty. There are lots of pretty woman in the world and they keep making more. When she holds your hand during chemo, then she's something special. Know what I mean?
[–]younngtrouble 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes. Which is why I don’t care much if nothing happens
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good for you, brother. Sounds like you got the right attitude.
[–]PaintingCool 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s a rationalization she can do later in when she cheats on her BF She thinks to herself “I’m not a bad person or a slut or anything, I told him I had a BF and told him I wouldn’t respond but he still kept pushing and trying until I eventually gave in. It’s his fault not mine”
I’ve literally heard girls say shit along those lines after cheating on their man
[–]3SidedDie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same happened to me, it was her way to say "hey, I like you, but as a friend". We used to talk a lot while in person, but yeah, she would never answer her phone/social media.
Im not saying it would be the same for u.
Damn sorry about that, it’s happened to me as well and it’s hard to really realize what’s going on when ur in it.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did you know that sometimes people lie? Why would she lie about that? Well, she has a boyfriend but doesn’t like him so much now, wants to keep her options open, but at the same time she doesn’t want you to think she will just cheat on him like that. It’s basically a “you play your game, but don’t make me feel like i’m the bad one”
Deniability… bet. This is what many keep saying so it’s probably accurate. Very good insight
[–]Shintaigou 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She playing hard to get, a woman decides 3months in that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore, she just wants a playboy
Relationships feel great til’ you realize you’re too available lol
[–]andrei_89 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Actions speak louder than words.
When people say something, and do something else, it is usually their actions that show their true intent.
Facts
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[–]Shakespeare-Bot 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's keeping her options open.. like most other girls.. always open to monkeybrandching to another guy..
Or maybe she'll cheat on him with you..
And she was just giving herself plausible deniability. ..
"I told him I wouldn't respond" .. and it just happened, one thing led to another BS girls tell themselves.
She's probably DTF if you hit her up at the right time.
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