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RealHumanBeing2020 · 2021-08-31T17:58:43+00:00

I love going out alone and trying new bars and restaurants. One thing I’d do when I used to be a little anxious was to go to the bar later at night as opposed to going at happy hour or before “it started to get rowdy.” Because everyone had already been drinking for a while, it made me feel at ease. Idk, maybe this will also help someone.

member1465 · 2021-08-31T19:31:16+00:00

I don't feel like I can gain social circle or just new social contacts from going to bars, clubs or events alone.

Everyone in said places already knows each other. They came with their friends.

To make a friend, you need accidental repeated contact.

You can't make a friend in 30 minutes, even if you're friendly and socially skilled (which many of us aren't, if we were we probably wouldn't need to do cold approach to make friends)

LanaTownsend · 2021-09-01T02:50:31+00:00

Developing good social skills is vastly underrated. Good looks, a nice body and/or high income will only get your foot in the door. If your social skills are trash, you won't be attractive. By attractive, I mean someone that people want to be around - not strictly looks.

PompousSchmuck · 2021-08-31T20:04:34+00:00

Go do something social, like dancing or a cooking class.. I could find a different date every week just from the dancing scene alone, if i was a manwhore.

greenlight144000 · 2021-08-31T20:01:21+00:00

When you don’t even have any friends to have a social circle :(

onelifeinlove · 2021-08-31T23:28:07+00:00

Fucking S tier post right now.

Starshiee · 2021-09-01T03:25:36+00:00

tbh this is very important. lately ive been trying more and more to get out. even starting by just hanging out with friends plying MTG sessions all night has gotten me extra invites to other social stuff. the other night i went bar hopping with some girls i hardly know and ended up reconnecting with an old friend (happens to be a mutual between myself and the girls i was with, so that worked out), and even casually making conversation with an old fling. made some hot eye contact with a few strangers, and even bumped into other chicks who happened to compliment my hair or my outfit. i forget how much people seem to notice me or appreciate my presence because i value my solitude a little too much but its so nice to get out and about every once and a while

M0dsRGay69 · 2021-09-07T00:05:10+00:00

The fact that everything is mask mandated and we’re being told to ostracize anyone who holds a different opinion other than our own on the matter doesn’t help either.

BlackShabbos · 2021-09-01T04:54:45+00:00

Truth.

I'm in the process of finding good places to go. Bars are a hit-or-miss. I had a good night early in June, but since then there's been no luck. Somehow I always pick the locations / evenings that are empty.

I'll still give it a shot once every few weeks. It's worth it to learn to be comfortable in my own skin in public.

The yoga studio I started attending has friendly people and students my age. Becoming a familiar face will take time, but I'm working on it. The exercise is an added bonus.

I'm looking for another hobby to take up. Dance (the buti yoga is surprisingly enjoyable)? Volleyball? I don't know where to start. I guess I'll find out.

krispykreme01 · 2021-08-31T20:08:09+00:00

Cum stains on your young dame

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