I feel hurt from rejection

Ok-Cat-7913 · 2021-08-16T19:44:36+00:00

Bro you got to relax. You should never let a stranger know you got hurt by them. Keep it to yourself and be solid like a rock. Also let yourself feel your emotions fully in private.

Recharge with your favorite hobbies and keep trying. You live and you learn, and nuthin good in life comes easy. Treat it like a business and when you meet one you like and she likes you back geniunely, thats your cue to take it as serious as you want.

If its still too much for you to handle bro, I recommend therapy, maybe sumthin is holding you back from moving on from feeling pain. All in all bro, I wish you the best. Never stop moving forward🙏🏽

thethrowowoy · 2021-08-16T20:16:14+00:00

Firstly, realise she owes you absolutely nothing. Guilt tripping will never make a girl suddenly apologise

Your mindset should be one that instantly goes 'oh well, her loss' and you move on

The fact she has flaked is enough evidence that she is not good enough

Just because you placed a lot of value on this going somewhere, doesn't mean she did. Read her actions for what they are and learn to be ok in accepting rejection

I'm not surprised she didn't respond to your last message. As I said at the start, she owes you nothing. It is not masculine to imply you need an apology. It shows your ego needed some repairs

The second you found out she was out with her friends, it should have been you that left her on read. If she did ever reach out to you again, the next move is down to you. You have the option to forget about her, reject her or give her another chance

wellthenj · 2021-08-16T20:48:19+00:00

Trying to guilt trip her to apologize and respecting yourself are different things. You can’t force a girl to say or feel anything. The second she said she was out with friends instead of respecting your date it’s her loss and you cut her off. That way she knows she fucked up and you know you don’t have to deal with that from her ever again

Zeus_xo · 2021-08-16T23:29:02+00:00

You need to understand that in life it is the failure that makes you.

You'll fail exams, you'll fail job interviews, you'll get rejected. That's part of life.

Fall, get back up and try again, with better knowledge.

You are your own competition, so stop complaining and start seeing failure as the biggest part of success.

mydicksore · 2021-08-16T23:37:15+00:00

if a single woman is making you feel this bad then you’re not talking to enough women

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2021-08-17T03:11:28+00:00

You juat have to work on reminding yourself not to be hurt by people qho dont give a shit about you.

Wrong_Ladder4367 · 2021-08-16T23:16:20+00:00

It's cause you're not truly confident in yourself yet. If you were this wouldn't phase you because you see yourself as a catch with options.

Title	I feel hurt from rejection
Author	Wrong_Ladder4367
Upvotes	7
Comments	22
Date	August 16, 2021 7:38 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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