Is it legit or not ?

2021-08-24T23:35:44+00:00

They’ve heard it all of their life. When you compliment girls like that, you’re really just saying “I told you something nice, now give me a chance”

Be honest and just say you wanted to talk to them.

kinkornkarn99 · 2021-08-24T23:17:52+00:00

Whose your audience? For cold approach? I like your style is fine…but make it specific. Wow, you look amazing in those shoes—-did you just get them?

“Hey, I saw you from across the room and had to come over and say…you’ve got the most beautiful eyes.”

“Nice tits” —no, bro 😆

B3asy · 2021-08-25T00:03:02+00:00

Compliment women on things they have a lot of control over. For example, their clothes, jewelry/accessories, their vibe, etc. Avoid complimenting anything they are born with like eyes, hair, lips, etc.

RainbowChardonnay · 2021-08-24T23:15:05+00:00

No this is a total turn off for women. Always keep it classy.

appmanga · 2021-08-25T01:51:36+00:00

Before you say to a woman you don't know: "Nice tits", think about saying to the guy in the urinal next to you "Nice dick". Or better yet, think about that guy saying to you "Nice dick".

Does any of this sound like a great idea?

5_7pickup · 2021-08-25T07:18:25+00:00

Okay so I just learned this. You dont actually want to show your intent so aggressively such as "youre so pretty" or "I had to come say hi because youre so cute". I was doing that all last week and girls responded positively with laughter but it's actually very bad game. The reason I used very blunt and direct lines was to establish the PREMISE of a man to woman relationship. I aint down for any of that friendzone shit thats why. I wanted to make sure she knew I am interested in a sexual way and not platonic. The issue is that these overtly aggressive "intent" lines gives away your "power" in the interaction. There's no mystery or surprise anymore once you tell her these lines. She knows that she has you in the bag already.

It's like going to a job interview and before the interview starts, the boss says hey youre hired but lets do this interview anyways.

The solution is to establish the PREMISE that this is a non-platonic interaction via COVERT methods. Just youtube Tod V Intent if you wanna learn more.

As for your openers, I don't recommend them. I like your style is okay but that doesn't really establish a good premise but that's fine. You don't need to establish a premise with the opener, you can establish it later on. I like your eyes they are so seductive and nice tits are bad openers imo because those are VERY uncalibrated lines for opener. Now that's not to say you cant use those lines later on in the interaction when you have built enough value+comfort and escalated properly.

Now, you can use uncalibrated shit whenever you want but the more uncalibrated it is, the higher the risk is, but also the higher the reward. I think using uncalibrated shit is more suited for advance PUAs. Doing that as a beginner is gonna be a train wreck.

LeavingituptoBeaver · 2021-08-24T23:25:55+00:00

Well as commonly mentioned, the statement of what you want to say is definitely going to need thought about your intended receiver. Keep in mind… being seductive, “ as you are stating”doesn’t always imply a long term situation to unfold. So there’s that too… how well you like someone and how you first approached that person will never be repeated. Sooo if you desire short term… step back…. just in case there is a slap coming at you for your comments lol

Safe-Investigator271 · 2021-08-25T05:12:54+00:00

no hair compliments?

mostlyawesume · 2021-08-25T07:16:23+00:00

Complements are awesome. Not everyone hears them as much as we think. So when it is genuine we appreciate them. I would suppose this works both ways. Time and place and context is important. Wouldn’t really want to hear i have nice “tits” at my moms dinner table but if i am some where else and i have my “tits” on display, then it might go over much better. It all depends on the woman you are complementing as well. When i hear a complement i dont always think someone is interested. I need more thAn just nice hair… because i am that clueless that i am being hit on. It will either work or it won’t. Don’t stop being you and genuine.

earsurgery9 · 2021-08-25T07:23:44+00:00

like all styles, it will work if she's into you. Do it enough times and i'm certain you'll come back with a fun lay report at some point

Shadow__Account · 2021-08-25T13:15:36+00:00

I only give physical compliments on the bedroom, outside of that I like to compliment characteristics.

M0dsRGay69 · 2021-08-25T18:00:22+00:00

If you’re going to compliment a women, compliment something they’re wearing like a piece of jewelry or clothing. Bonus points if you can get her to talk about said item.

Chewbaccafruit · 2021-08-25T20:54:02+00:00

Telling a stranger "nice tits" is a good way to get maced, slapped, and/or have cops called on you

FlatDistance5 · 2021-08-25T04:34:16+00:00

Split test and find out. I personally have told a few women that I thought they had big titties as an opener from cold approach.

Me: hey excuse ms Her with her 😒face: yes (here we go again) Me: can’t think of a proper opener so I quickly look her up down and say: don’t punch me but I thought you had some big titties, I’m Edward Her: 😂 you’re crazy (shit test) bet you say that to all the girls Me: yes, but really only the ones I could potentially like Her: 🤣🤣 my name is Jessica Me: big tittied Jessica that’s how I’ll put you in my phone 😁

They usually are aghast and just laugh it’s a great ice breaker. So try it out it could be a new go to plus women don’t hear that too often. Just make sure to Frame it correctly

Legitimate-Lies · 2021-08-25T00:49:01+00:00

I wouldn’t say nice tits, you can banter after they’re into you and feeling you. I’ll say I like their shirt or something but ultimately it boils down to how attractive you have

prince_of_brosia · 2021-08-25T01:31:07+00:00

Compliment on her style as an ice breaker and start talking and get some banter going. Attempt flirting and see if she picks up what you are throwing down

Thoughts274 · 2021-08-25T02:39:38+00:00

Not my style. And the kind of girl that likes that probably isn't for me either

prettydirtyboy · 2021-08-25T00:56:25+00:00

Indirect is always more smooth. If you’re gonna compliment keep them far and few in between and try to compliment things that you can’t see.

moderndayfez · 2021-08-25T01:41:29+00:00

There is no right or wrong answer for this, and what I mean by this is some will appreciate the direct compliment while other will the indirect way.

But yea I don't recommend. Nice eyes, nice boobs also yea no

Stujitsu2 · 2021-08-25T01:46:22+00:00

Sometimes I'll say: " hey pretty!" If they reply :"hey handsome" you are golden. I don'y recommend approaching a set like this, but if its a situation there is no time to talk much, like a gas station. Go for it cause she not gonna stop for idle chit chat anyway.

OriginalPostrSociety · 2021-08-25T01:50:44+00:00

It completely depends on your energy. You could get a girl naked taking about a bacon egg and cheese McMuffin if you did it in a sexual enough way.

kur0ikunn · 2021-08-25T01:25:58+00:00

Tactically used compliments is precursor to hot sex. Letting women earn their complements goes a long way IMO.

Ok_Worldliness_6657 · 2021-08-25T03:55:46+00:00

Yeah come more original something not so obvious. Don’t do sexual talk until u know she’s feeling u like that too

Title	Is it legit or not ?
Author	Wrong_Ladder4367
Upvotes	24
Comments	41
Date	August 24, 2021 11:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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