If you don't have matches on tinder, what do you do?

GracieFairmont86 · 2021-06-17T04:51:49+00:00

As someone that existed before the internet and even cell phones, I can safely say you should abolish o.l.d. Unless you are part of the top 5% of Chad's beautiful peoples club, it will not be a good time. Even if you get laid off of tinder, good luck finding someone that ain't bat shit crazy, even for hookups there had to be a small degree of respect/trust.

My whole thing was that if I want to avoid crazy people from the internet, I can no longer be one of them.

It is best to get into seduction the irl way. Talk to 10 women a day. Dont be afraid of mistakes. Go out and get rejected. Matter of fact, get rejected on purpose for the first couple weeks, just dont say serial killer shit that will get you maced. I can write a book on why this works, but trust me you will be shocked at the results.

I also advise find an older woman for a casual friendship that is willing to train you in seduction (Amoung other things) I call this type of female friend a "manmaker".

aznkor · 2021-06-17T04:28:58+00:00

It's all about your pics with the apps. Hire a reasonable photographer and have a photoshoot around the cool places in your town on a nice day.

TrendingPineapple · 2021-06-17T04:06:28+00:00

Here’s the thing, buddy:

If you get “many likes” in the first few days then you are good looking enough to use Tinder to find a long-term girlfriend. Probably not a one night stand, but a long-term relationship (not that there’s anything stopping you from finding 3 long-term relationships too wink wink).

What Tinder does when you create a new profile is add you to the top of every girl’s deck in the area. But after a few days THEY MOVE YOU TO THE BOTTOM so that you BUY THEIR BOOST PRODUCT. They are a business, after all, and average to slightly above average men are their money-makers (Chads aren’t paying for it and women sure as shit ain’t, ugly dudes give up after a day and join an incel forum).

So my advice, buy Boosts, use that during prime hours (weekend afternoons/evenings), find 4-6 women and try to convert those into long term relationships. Realistically out of those 4-6 you’ll only convert 1-2, so do that and rinse/repeat once you get bored of them.

You won’t be slaying, not good looking enough, but you are good enough to be a boyfriend with the right personality. Beat these superficial children at their own game.

2021-06-17T09:07:38+00:00

Try different app. At this point in time Tinder is more a pit for catfishing, trolls and crazies or incredibly shy people that you wouldn't encounter (which is good, because sometimes shy people make great partners, however their timidness might keep you from improving yourself and her/himself at the same time) at parties or concerts. I've had some success on Badoo, but no idea how much Plenty of Fish, Coffee Meets Bagel, Bumble are worth.

Still, the best way to approach women is through real life interactions, because it kicks your social anxiety in the butt (rejected or not). Dating apps somewhat eliminate the fear of interaction, but on a surface level, because you don't know what kind of a person is on the other side of the screen a part from texts. Also set your expectations to the lowest scale, dive in just to hang out and have a good time than expecting something more, because most people aren't willing to settle down instantly. But what do I know, some people find their long term partners on there.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

_JasonX_ · 2021-06-17T19:41:32+00:00

Dating apps are some of the worst methods

Maximum-Malevolence · 2021-06-18T00:57:35+00:00

Fuck tinder. Try to meet wemon off of social media.

Odd_Elegance · 2021-06-17T04:21:34+00:00

I get likes from gay men

TheSunshineMan · 2021-06-17T03:54:44+00:00

In real life.

double_prong · 2021-06-17T06:08:59+00:00

OLD is awful for men and women. The women have hundreds of men trying to chat them up, and mostly choose the hottest guys. Those are the guys every woman wants, and they take advantage. Why would they pick you? As for the experience most men get, you're living it.

Ashido_Komaki · 2021-06-17T13:00:33+00:00

Go out and talk to people irl

GlobalAside8142 · 2021-06-17T13:20:38+00:00

In my experience, there are enough mad, bad and unpleasant people out there in the real world, without going online to actively seek them out, lol.

TheGoatLives24 · 2021-06-17T21:13:33+00:00

Post better pictures

No selfies

Post pictures of you doing different activities and dressed well.

Have fun

STD-Tyler · 2021-06-17T22:24:25+00:00

Like everything in life, you fail then learn and become better. But putting it off altogether and just go talk to girls in the mall? Guess what, they will destroy you too. Then why not quit again? Since that is what you are used to.

Nothing wrong with cold approach, but it is not the solution to your failure on Tinder.

ocb05 · 2021-06-18T04:37:18+00:00

Web dating apps are scams or not real. Do it real life.

Title	If you don't have matches on tinder, what do you do?
Author	bububeti
Upvotes	11
Comments	26
Date	June 17, 2021 3:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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