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winedanddined · 2014-01-13T18:18:03+00:00

Get into a service business in which you visit them at their homes. If they become a "repeat" customer they will get to know you. If there is any sign of friendliness (especially an offer of something to drink, like wine, after the work is complete) then you may have an "in." Be careful, though, I know a guy who got shut out of one communitybecause in his head he thought every female client, married or not, was attracted to him. He said and/or did inappropriate things and word got around. No personal experience with this, but supposedly volunteering can be a good avenue for meeting people. A lot of times, well-to-do women have so much time on their hands and they love giving back to the community. Find fundraisers and locally-focused organizations where you'll be rubbing elbows with them. Last few good relationships were with older gals who were pretty well off. Except for one of them, I actually waited until they made a move. The woman I'm seeing now invited me to dine by the water one warm June evening last year. There was some very mild flirtation back when her husband was alive. A year after he passed away the heat turned up a bit during two subsequent business visits - but just a bit. The June dinner was the first romantic interlude. She paid for our dinner, and again the next time we went there, but it has been dutch dating ever since. So... I'm not by any means a "kept man" but she warmly welcomes me to her house. I build fires for us while we snuggle by the couch, and she serves us wine and cheese or makes us both dinner. Makes killer omelettes in the morning. I'm perfectly happy with that. Physically we're unbelievably in sync. She's told me she can't be with someone if it's limited to only physical intimacy. That said, I struggle with the fact that I'm not nearly as experienced, well-off or sophisticated as her or the people in her social circles. I guess she has accepted me for who and what I am already, but I feel like I need to find a way to add more value or else she'll get bored and walk away.

gigitygigitygoo · 2014-01-13T16:59:58+00:00

I had a short lived fling with an older woman years ago. I worked at a place she frequented so she knew my income level and that she made significantly more. She paid for everything and even wanted to go on trips/cruises with me, her paying of course. Relationship was purely sexual.

I didn't treat her any differently but I think the fact that she had a good 15 years on me, I was like 22 and worked in the service industry, and she owned her own business, It was expected she pay. Now had she been my age, that definitely wouldn't have been the case.

In short, I think an older woman is the easiest way to go about this.

2014-01-13T17:42:01+00:00

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dodged_that_one · 2014-01-13T17:36:20+00:00

I took her to a supermarket, I don't know why but I had to start it somewhere, so it started there.

truOG · 2014-01-13T16:06:42+00:00

treat em all the same

infernalsatan · 2014-01-13T22:10:42+00:00

Go to a cougar bar

lavadru · 2014-01-14T18:27:44+00:00

Same way you date anyone else. Just because she's rich does not mean you stop paying. If you're trying to play it to get some free meals you're not looking at the big picture. What makes it worth it is the gifts. The trick is to ask for nothing, you'll eventually receive much more than you can imagine when played correctly.

HappyJerk · 2014-01-13T16:48:53+00:00

The kind that will share her wealth with you and pay for things?

That's kind of a creepy and manipulative thing to ask for. You should be in relationships with women because you enjoy their company and actually like them, not to use them for their money.

unpossibru · 2014-01-14T00:49:24+00:00

For me it just happened. She liked to pay for me, but I didn't know she was rich until she told me she had inherited 22 million. She is also 10 years younger than me, so not a cougar. Didn't seek it out, and I have my own money which is probably why she felt comfortable telling me.

that1guywithredhair · 2014-01-14T08:18:05+00:00

Kenny, is that you?

the_fuzzyone · 2014-01-13T21:16:13+00:00

If op wants to have a Suga Momma's that's on him, even though its kinda ...manipulative but w/e.

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