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[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ignore it. no bro should make fun of another bro in the gym. if someone does... they are a douche.
[–]b0100010 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why do you feel like the response would be to intimidate the other guy? You probably already do which is why he only made fun of you because you were behind a wall, and he was likely just trying to impress the girls he was with.
Try not to worry so much about what some loser on the street thinks about you
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[–]b0100010 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
think of it like this, that guy was so intimidated by you and you looked like you were such a threat to him and his relationships that he felt like he had to diminish you in the eyes of the girls. Also know that that kind of behavior communicates insecurity to the girls, so now not only did that guy make those girls pay attention to you, he also diminished his own value in their eyes
[–]Kenic_In_MD 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're in the gym getting diesel, that guy is outside doing the complete opposite. Ignore the haters, use their hate to fuel your success. It's what I do.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Try laughing at yourself too
[–]Unverschaemt 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't go to the gym to have fun but to train. Therefore he was the fool, not you.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh. That sucks
[–]kap1pa 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro, fuck. Them. Next time put ur hands in ur pants, get some ball sweat on your finger tips and just flick it at them. Or just straight up ignore them, either way, all a good play.
[–]Tigercsgo 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
What exercise were you doing that was comical?
How you responded is fine, personally I would've gone full OTT trying to fish for more laughter but I don't really care what people think of me, the actions they took is a reflection of them not of you.
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[–]Tigercsgo 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
All good brother.
Its an elliptical just innately stupid looking cardio not much you can do but play it up or ignore it (as you did) if you go the confidence look up Terry Crewes classic training clip from that tv show (someone help cant recall the name) and just act like you imagine Terry would, easy way to get some laughs in yourself regardless of spectators.
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[–]ConstantlyAltering 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doubt Terry Crews gets upset because someone makes jokes about him at the gym, maybe he should be a role model for you.
[–]dvdchstr 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This one made me laugh
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Don't sweat it brother. Who cares what some randoms think.
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Gotta work on your inner game then. You cant be giving a shit what ppl that you'll never see again in your life think about you.
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
As I said, work on your inner game
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your response clearly shows me that you dont know what inner game is.
Inner game is all about loving yourself as a person, and accepting/embracing everything that makes you the person that you are.
You getting angry about this means that you're subconsciously hating something about yourself. Me not getting mad in the same situation means I love myself and accept myself for who I am, no matter if other people laugh at, dislike, or hate me. It's not about being "cool". It's about self love.
Honestly man, I'm trying to help you by responding to your post and comments. But you're taking the situation that you described and this thread that we're having way too personally. Life is amazing! So take it easy! You got to love yourself first before anybody can love you.
[–]kap1pa 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If the actions of others bothers you, by definition your inner game has holes in it. You can't bullshit your way out of the truth man. Focus there, everything else is vastly less important
[–]kap1pa 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When the moment comes when you finally figure out how weak your inner game truly is, seek help, lots of good books out there.
Sincerely, good luck.
[–]anabolic92 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Then you are going to live a very shitty life
[–]kap1pa 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why?! They mean NOTHING!
[–]shiftup1772 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How would the same guy react if you were making fun of him? He would either ignore it or have fun with it. He's confident with himself, and knows that there is nothing about him specifically that made him a target for mockery. So he is just gonna join in on the fun.
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Other people are disabled, blind, deaf etc and can't do the things what we take for granted and you're here because you were mocked? Id that's the case then I'm sorry for you because life is waaaay more savage than that. Litteraly everyone's been mocked before in their life. Unless you're a kid, you gotta man up bro. What I always do whenever someone gives me some look is just to mouth "what's this b*tch lookin' at" with a light, confident smile (like I've slept with their wife without then knowing lol). They always look the other way for some reason.... Guess maybe they didn't expect a cocky response? Lol... Anyways, the only way to get over moments like these is to know your worth and work on your confidence, because a confident guy wouldn't give a shit about something like that, now would they? 😉 Hope I helped in some way... Good luck...
[–]robmed 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You go to the gym to improve yourself so who cares what others think. Next time someone makes fun of you just flip em off and continue your workout.
[–]angry_african 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck him, hes probably just insecure. Get those gains bro
[–]LingeringGnome 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sound like you haven't been laid in a while, and you're letting small things get to you.
Approach women, go on dates.
[–]LingeringGnome 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That attitude, right there will have women running from you. And since this is a seduction forum, that's a valid observation to make.
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