Had a promising 4-hour first date with a woman (30F) i(I'm 26M) with flirting and light physicality, and I covered a $100 bar tab. Following a polite text exchange, which i said it was nice to see her and she also did while sending a kiss emoji, she didn't respond to my suggestion for a second date. Frustrated by the silence, I sent a blunt "let me know if you down to hang out hang out for a one nights" text, which she labeled "aggressive" and said cooled her interest. I acknowledged her feedback but maintained my interest while respecting her decision. Seeking advice on whether my directness was wrong after being ignored. During the date she was nice, not that much flirty. But yeah, I was blunt. We held hands, but she told me she likes to take her time.

I dont know, maybe im just social inept but if during the first date i dont hit, i drop the chase.