I didn’t get laid. I’m 25, her 52.

That wasn’t my primary objective but since we were meeting at a cafe anyway, I thought of shooting my shot. I was calm and collected throughout, a little mysterious by not divulging too much of myself. I listened as she told me her life-story, her ex-husband. I wouldn’t say I was nervous, has a good posture

As a friendly interaction, you could say it was excellent. Nice meeting her at last (we had been talking on and off since April). But I was absolutely terrible at seducing. Now I’m not good at seduction at all since I spend all of my time reading and studying, so let this serve as both a hub for advice and as a warning. I would look tell her straight she was beautiful, that I liked appreciating her eyes, I indicated my sexual desire by telling her “there’s something about you that lea ves me wanting more” but she didn’t really react in my favour. Said that she’s reached a phase in her life that she likes her own peace and tranquility, she only has a need for sex once in a while and she already has that person (currently working out of town) and I also suggested to her the idea of her having two instead of one as if it was nothing. She declined and I didn’t pursue it any further. I did touch her wrist prior, saying she had nice smooth skin.

Positive interaction but I still feel terrible because despite displaying a good demeanour, not feeling nervous, I failed to seduce. I must have done something terribly wrong for her to decline my suggestion and I’m ruining my head for it. I want an older woman and o keep reading on this sub that with an older woman, it’s better to just be honest. I was and nothing. It leaves me depressed. Will I continue to try and meet other women? Yes, I’m determined. But it leaves me depressed because I don’t know the areas of where to improve. I don’t know how to seduce and it hurts me.