Do good looking guys have inner game issues?

SinSlayer · 2015-06-04T01:40:09+00:00

Every one has inner game issues.

808sGoBoom · 2015-06-04T01:50:54+00:00

I'm 6'3, pretty good looking, but I've been about 20 lbs overweight since i was a small child. I see skinny/muscular dudes barely over 5'4 and assume theyve got it made compared to me, but I've heard close friends of mine in the same position say they would rather have my body type. I think everyone has inner game issues, but its easy to blame your most blatant flaw. In the end, confidence trumps these physical impurities.

Junki3JJC · 2015-06-05T12:45:17+00:00

I'll set the scene - I'm 6ft, have been told I'm good looking, muscle definition and I've been called "Johnny Jawline" from my mates/girls alike because of, well... You guessed it. Plus I'm a Scot living in America so I have the accent advantage too.

On top of that, good apartment, nice car (2015 Mustang GT), and I never worry about money.

Do I have inner game issues? Of course I do. Majority of the time than not. If anything I think it can sometimes be worse because of the pressure from everyone that thinks all of the above matters (yes, some of it does of course but not all) when in reality it doesn't matter shit.

One of my shorter, less good looking and skinnier mates has some of the highest confidence in talking to anyone I've ever seen, and regularly pulls 8/9s without much effort.

It really is about mindset and my one is something I'm trying to work on, hence why I'm here. Regardless of looks, status or wealth, you're not alone.

DaygameCoach · 2015-06-04T01:52:44+00:00

YES. I know some very attractive men who have huge amounts of approach anxiety!

tripple-glaze · 2015-06-04T03:01:31+00:00

killaswagyolo420 · 2015-06-04T03:59:12+00:00

Not always. Most of the time the inner game will be more solid because they've been treated to good experiences that they reference when it comes to a new girl.

f3yleaf · 2015-06-04T08:40:01+00:00

Yes, but dont underestimate the value of testosterone and feeling strong. Also it makes a pretty big difference in how girls reacts to you, which boosts your confidence.

JessePinkman88 · 2015-06-04T12:32:41+00:00

Yes, but they probably "get lucky" a bit more often than the 5 foot overweight dude.

Ultimately, you shouldn't focus on the things you can't change (your height) and only on those things you can (your confidence, your appearance).

this_guy2001 · 2015-06-07T16:46:55+00:00

Don't worry about them, worry about you.

craiggy · 2015-06-08T07:47:05+00:00

I'm 6'6, pretty muscular, defined jaw, yada yada yada. I used to have inner game issues ALL the time. I think I was deficient in getting women as opposed to others because I never really had to use "game". Everything came easy to me till college started, so I was way behind the curve.

Even with a girlfriend now, I still have inner conflicts where I think "I'm not good enough for her." From a looks standpoint, I practically believe I'm god's gift to the world. But from an inner game standpoint, I still have issues.

Tldr; Yes.

Title	Do good looking guys have inner game issues?
Author	aneurysm-p
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	June 4, 2015 1:34 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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