Does going to the gym make a big difference?

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-01-22T21:59:39+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

grldgcapitalz2 · 2025-01-22T20:31:08+00:00

Kancase · 2025-01-22T20:34:01+00:00

Yes I’ve heard ladies like guys with broad back and big forearms, you get that at the gym

DaygameCode · 2025-01-22T20:39:16+00:00

It can help you get better initial reactions, giving you more opportunities, and maybe more random easy low quality girls, but that’s it.

You still need to be fun, you still need to learn how to create tensión and turn them on, you still need to learn to connect with them, you still need to learn how to carry conversation, read the mood, learn when to kiss them, and basically learn to seduce them.

So while it helps to some extent for example to carry yourself with more confidence and to get better initial reactions from women,…

Ultimately, the root of your dating issues is not your physique, but in your ability to create solid emotional connections with women and the ability to make them feel intense emotions to get them invested in you and to turn them on.

bert_cj · 2025-01-22T20:33:23+00:00

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-01-22T20:38:52+00:00

No amount of muscle will get you laid if u don’t know the game.

However, if you know the game and are buffed. It’s like playing a game on the easiest mode.

EluIlus · 2025-01-22T20:33:19+00:00

Think of it like this - if you watch porn and see the guys doing it like crazy and the girls eyes start rolling back… if you work out and incorporate cardio, you can do the same

RobertB16 · 2025-01-22T21:07:04+00:00

Yes.

PerformerOwn5860 · 2025-01-22T21:36:04+00:00

I’ll say this.

It won’t make a difference if a primary intention of going to the gym is to gain attention from women for your results. Your expectations will disappoint you.

Training, both lifting and cardio is a long game. There’s two types of men that women will even bother to glance at. Shredded guys and guys who lift the RIGHT way. I only say this because if you’re going to the gym with results in mind, you’re susceptible to rushing through lifts or worse ego lifting. Don’t stunt yourself early, go to the gym to learn lifting slow and controlled. You will see more attainable progress and it’ll be challenge worth more investment as weeks move on. If you treat the gym as a new craft and not a resource for external validation, in a few months or a year people will undoubtably recognize your progress.

And you’ll feel better knowing you’ve added something new to your development, instead of going as a “fix”. Long story short, the gym is just a small supplement to a better dating life; not a main source. Best to you on your journey!

dayton-ode · 2025-01-22T21:36:13+00:00

Yes but once you get to a decent enough point, you just get more attention from gay men and a few cougars. Social skills become a bigger part of the equation after that threshold

Onzalimey · 2025-01-22T21:38:57+00:00

No it doesn’t fix your dating life but not why you should go to the gym. The gym is amazing for every reason AND your dating life. So yes you need to go

Private_Capital1 · 2025-01-22T21:14:09+00:00

nope , girls care about what you can do for them

Title	Does going to the gym make a big difference?
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Date	January 22, 2025 8:30 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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