Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before dates

No-Preference8767 · 2024-07-09T17:31:44+00:00

You should go to a therapist / psychologist then . If it's not physical it's probably mental

Zane-Zipperflip · 2024-07-09T19:24:33+00:00

Half of life is just showing up. Stop bailing on her or you'll lose her.

Dry_Tune2919 · 2024-07-09T17:00:41+00:00

Take a shot of whiskey and smoke a cig, then get ready for your date. Stop being a bitch.

FrederickVonFanculen · 2024-07-09T20:05:43+00:00

You want to know the stupidest and most effective solution? Fucking tell her what's going on. Anytime I have a fear or a problem or whatever I just SAY it, and its gone. Instead if you keep it inside it builds up and builds up. Most of the time when I tell people what's troubling me or what's going on inside of me they are pleased I did. Just be honest and see what a relief, instead of risking of vomiting during a french kiss lol

-PinkPower- · 2024-07-09T19:58:00+00:00

It’s anxiety. Therapy can help a lot, if it’s serious enough temporary medication to work on the issue can help too.

Also be honest. More people have anxiety than you think she will probably be understanding

Loud-Hovercraft-1922 · 2024-07-09T21:14:05+00:00

I used to throw up before dates. Sometimes I would have a couple shots of whisky then head out. Nerves normally die down after a little bit. This is what life’s about ! Living! Feeling uncomfortable. That’s how you grow

DisruptorMor · 2024-07-09T17:21:11+00:00

Find something to force this bitching behavior out of you.

Go to an MMA gym, challenge someone, get your ass beaten up like a champ, and every time you get anxious about going on a date try remembering when you got your ass kicked and what is true fear.

It might be a joke, or not, you choose.

ICIRCUIT · 2024-07-09T22:39:28+00:00

I’m currently dating and in therapy for anxiety. I have the same thing. And for me turns out it’s deep rooted in insecurities and feeling like you’re going to be judged during the date. Therapy helped me flip that perspective around from “am I right for her?” To “let’s see if this girl is right for me”. She might be a total lame once you get to know her, she might be feeling nervous and insecure too, and she wants she wants the date go well too. All reasons to relax and be yourself. If you go into a date with anxiety and insecurity you’re likely to try to be a people pleaser to her, she’s going to smell it and get turned off by you.
I recommend thinking about whether this is kind of what you’re feeling and really consider therapy. There’s no shame in it.

gothbaddiewtf · 2024-07-09T17:34:32+00:00

Propanolol 20 mg

pavlos_extrem · 2024-07-09T17:21:35+00:00

Holy fuck dude

It’s not this serious

ShitSeeekerz · 2024-07-09T17:23:47+00:00

I can relate man, it happens to me aswell. What I’ve read - it’s just a fear of being judged. It’s pretty shit

tenclowns · 2024-07-09T19:26:56+00:00

Practice talking with people especially girls, plan a bit what you can talk about and say before the date. Once its easier to talk and you have a plan you can at least reduce the anxiety quite substantially. Without the plan or the experience you like everyone will have worries about what you will say, and if you will embarrass yourself etc... This really will have an impact

oaxaca_locker · 2024-07-09T20:01:57+00:00

this used to happen to me in my early 20s. Before a date just throw up. Then shower, shave and brush your teeth. haha nerves will be gone and you can enjoy the date

Whole_Reserve1567 · 2024-07-09T21:52:27+00:00

It's normal , I've been dating a girl and yes I did feel so anxious on the first date that I was about to cancel , and I'm glad I didn't. The anxiety literally lasted for like 15 minutes on the date and I literally had the best first date in my entire life

nurture420 · 2024-07-10T01:55:55+00:00

Just go despite the anxiety, fuck it man, just get out there and give it a try. Maybe a few minutes in the anxiety will start to ease. I know many famous musicians would get paralyzing fear even before going on stage, already a big success. Maybe you can use the nerves to your advantage…ask her a lot of questions about herself to help focus on her (and she’ll likely have viewed it as a better conversation anyhow).

Littletacointexas · 2024-07-10T03:00:13+00:00

Try smelling rubbing alcohol and see if that doesn’t help. It’s a thing I promise it’s worth a try.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-07-10T07:13:24+00:00

If she agreed to a date with you, she likes you. If she agreed to a date with you, she likes you. If she agreed to a date with you, she likes you.

Typed it three times so it gets through your head.

She already likes you. She's interested.

You need to let go of all that anxiety and replace it with the knowledge that she already wants you. You went through the hard part. You got the date. She showed interest. She's into you. Now go out there and finish what you started!

HighNetGirth · 2024-07-10T08:13:18+00:00

I like to meditate before dates and game to decrease anxiety. It also makes you more in the moment and able to connect with girls.

vigilanting · 2024-07-10T09:23:24+00:00

If it is with a girl I really like, I always workout hard before the date. Then take a shower, eat a good meal, preferably a meal with high protein and natural fats leaving u feeling full. Absolutely no anxiety whatsoever after.

throwitaway1231082 · 2024-07-09T19:49:06+00:00

Be open and honest with her. Tell her you're extremely nervous and you don't know why so you apologize in advance if you seem anxious at first. Cancelling multiple times is just gunna blow your chances with her completely

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-07-09T17:51:56+00:00

Turn your weakness into gain. If she is mad a.f. she might sleep with you more. Just man up enough to show up for the date one out of 3 times.

mister_k1 · 2024-07-09T19:58:42+00:00

do you train?

2024-07-09T21:50:16+00:00

I’m unable to get dates since april due to my nise

MrAnonPoster · 2024-07-09T22:42:16+00:00

Stop matching with girls who make you throw up in your mouth.

Morph_Kogan · 2024-07-10T04:03:08+00:00

Alcohol or cocaine

tajbinjohn · 2024-07-10T07:05:13+00:00

What do you eat before dates? Is it an energy drink of some kinds

Dandys3107 · 2024-07-10T07:07:26+00:00

Maybe it's some unconscious signal specifically for this girl, to prevent you from intercting with her for your own good. If you get this also with other cases, I guess you had some hidden anxieties that should be professionally addressed.

Epiphanic_Eros · 2024-07-10T09:06:22+00:00

Try the gentle vase breathing technique. It’s quite grounding and centering, especially for times when the “energies” or whatever are wiggling in your belly and racing up to your head.

https://youtu.be/9vVg-hOvl5I?si=fQ2wic4Iz3MKr6z7

Lunatic_Jiggles · 2024-07-10T16:01:34+00:00

Take some Zofran if it just nausea. If it's full on anxiety, then you've got some deeper problems that you need a professional to help with.

Mysterious_Pie_969 · 2024-07-11T16:59:26+00:00

You are stressed. Go to therapist or get med: propanolol

Traditional-Mix1643 · 2024-07-13T02:56:37+00:00

Make a concrete plan on how the date will exactly go. Visualize it through to the end

MouseAware809 · 2024-07-17T14:24:49+00:00

Meditate

regular_womanizer · 2024-07-10T13:09:36+00:00

Yeah just pack it up. Cancelled 3 times cause of those typical stomach jitters? I even get that when I’m excited for a night out. Lol she deserves better

Title	Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before dates
Author	UnderPressureSince03
Upvotes	28
Comments	56
Date	July 9, 2024 4:50 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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