does it matter if youre fat?

Woujo · 2017-05-16T21:40:03+00:00

Yes, it matters if you are fat. Fat guys are generally less attractive to women. For some girls it might be a dealbreaker. For others, not.

But overall, looks matter a lot less to women than they do to men. Women are interested in a lot of other shit so if you are fat you can make up for it in other categories.

but still, you shouldn't be fat. Lose the weight.

letsgetrandy · 2017-05-16T20:27:13+00:00

What do you think looks are, then, if you don't think obesity is included in that?

DaygameCoach · 2017-05-16T20:57:28+00:00

Googling now: ah, 210 pounds. Sounds like you are about 40 pounds overweight, which is doable at your height (but not the same as being fit). I'm probably 25-30 lbs overweight and short, and do well, but Ive puts years and a lot of work into my game. I know a 6'2 guy who is probably 75 pounds overweight, and does well, but he like me, put years of work into his game.

Weight definitely matters, but other things like inner and outer game (incl dress style), approach, confidence, body language, humor, leading, attraction game, etc matter as well. With women it's all about how you make them feel and that is a combination of things.

I just saw your response to LGT. Anything can be a dealbreaker for any woman: smoking, age, height, weight, hair color (or hair at all), profession, you name it. Will some women NOT date a heavy guy? Absolutely. Will some women ACT like weight or height matters (shit test you) but date a heavy guy who MAKES THEM FEEL like they need/want to feel? Yes.

As an older short, chubby, balding dude...I'm at the point where I ask hot women on a date or initial meeting what they look for in a man...and they say "looks don't matter." LOL. They don't really mean "looks don't matter at all," but are saying that they like me (I have a shot). And they mean it, because they date me.

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ASAP_JAMS · 2017-05-16T21:33:54+00:00

I'm 220 but I'm 6"2. And I'm in pretty solid shape. So basically it just comes down to proportionality.

GlassJ0E · 2017-05-16T21:51:02+00:00

Weight matters. Some men are able to supersede this in various ways. A very select few look better with the weight.

Many people will see your weight as a reflection of your overall wellness. Can you get off the medication? If not, can you find a substitute? Do you drink soda?

MonkeyFist4150 · 2017-05-17T06:00:11+00:00

Fat works against you. Guys don't like fat girls unless they're chubby chasers. Girls don't like fat guys unless they have daddy issues. Fat implies laziness, lack of self control and its hard to look neat in clothing because the fat bulges and pulls on fabric. Women like the golden rule, broad shoulders, narrow waist, tiny butt, strong legs. Big muscles aren't necessary, just good proportions. Oh and neckbeards, fedoras, cargo shorts with sandals, vaping and fidget spinners....ditch all that for the love of god.

Orobek · 2017-05-18T03:18:03+00:00

I (F) really like it when guys are big/chubby. However! This is aesthetic. I do NOT like that guys who are big/chubby are big/chubby because they don't take care of themselves and are out-of-shape enough that they can't chase me naked around the house because they'll have a heart attack if they try. I am fine if a guy is fat and healthy (can keep up with me), not so ok if he's fat and unhealthy.

RytekBJJ · 2017-05-16T22:25:16+00:00

I can't find the study but I saw one a long time ago that most couples are within 1/10 of each other, and almost all are within 2 out of 10.

Yes, you can still ba attractive if you are fat, but it is extremely difficult, a lot more difficult than just losing the weight.

There is no medication that can directly cause you to gain fat. If a doctor told you that he is full of shit. Medications can alter your mood, and make you feel like you want to eat more, and if you overeat you will gain weight obviously, but if you don't you won't.

Losing weight isn't easy for anyone, with or without medication, but get your diet under control and it will happen.

VeryKodak · 2017-05-16T23:56:32+00:00

Name 1 fat alpha.

Title	does it matter if youre fat?
Author	flozza89
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	May 16, 2017 8:21 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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