Does Therapy help with the game?

xcoreflyup · 2024-09-28T17:52:32+00:00

I'd say yes. I grew up in the Chinese culture.

If your parent brag other kids achievement to your face for years, Having confidence as an adult will be hard.

drunkenpossum · 2024-09-28T17:42:01+00:00

Lol I’m just imagining being a therapist listening to people talk about their darkest traumas all day and then your new client comes in asking you how to get laid.

TakeAChillPill99 · 2024-09-28T17:55:33+00:00

Therapy is going to be a way more effective strategy than any “game”. Learning about yourself, your needs, your desires, working through things you struggle with, etc. will make you a happier and more attractive person

Yamochao · 2024-09-29T04:30:31+00:00

Therapy will probably make you stop calling it a game and hanging out in stupid subs like this, and start actually connecting with women and getting laid.

MentalCelOmega · 2024-09-28T20:14:19+00:00

Been in therapy for over two decades and it has not helped with game.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-09-29T01:00:26+00:00

No_Hat9118 · 2024-09-28T18:40:24+00:00

Doubt it, a female therapist will Fundamentally disagree with whole concept of it

Inventi · 2024-09-28T18:53:57+00:00

Therapy or understanding the psychology behind your own behavior can help you with your own mental state, and through that perhaps enhance your love life. (IMO - not a psychologist)

TrixoftheTrade · 2024-09-28T19:35:27+00:00

Yes, with a caveat. I went to therapy when I felt unfulfilled in my life and felt like I was just coasting without any serious intention. I was letting others dictate my life, not living how I wanted to live.

After I finished therapy & reevaluated/refocused my life, surprisingly my dating life (along with everything else) got so much better.

I went to therapy with the goal of improving my life, and dating just happened to get better in the process. It wasn’t the end goal, but a secondary result of the process.

bmcapers · 2024-09-28T19:04:36+00:00

Yes. I had defined the world based on constructs placed upon me, like masculinity, for example. After therapy, I realize these are social systems of control, usually to get me to fall in line to support larger power structures. Now I see my role in the greater apparatus and act accordingly of my choosing. That’s why I role my eyes when I hear anything alpha related.

2024-09-28T19:16:47+00:00

No it doesn’t. It’s a waste of money designed to give otherwise incompetent females money from men which should be used towards things like surgeries

Rollorich · 2024-09-28T20:51:01+00:00

Most therapists became therapists to try to figure out why they were so messed up to start with. Half of them couldn't keep a relationship, not to mention keep a healthy one.

DaygameCode · 2024-09-28T23:36:37+00:00

As a coach, i can tell you that the therapist can help your inner game.

Inner game is not the same as outer game. Inner game has to do with your self-esteem, your anxiety, your self-worth, self-doubt, self-assurance, your confidence, sense of adequacy, and your ego.

All of those things can make or break your relationships with women.

Then again, while therapist can help you with that he likely won’t know how to put that into practice in an interaction with women in a way that sounds charming and attractive and might not be able to give you effective skills to attract to or keep women attracted. Because the therapist only helps you to understand yourself.

This is why coaches exists, because they link both the outer game skills with the inner game mindset to make sure you can approach women, interact with them and have relationships with them without your mind sabotaging you on the process.

OaklandRaider1983 · 2024-09-29T01:00:05+00:00

I would say so. It could help you bounce back from anxiety, depression, and self-esteem issues.

Awesomo_Judgementday · 2024-09-29T04:38:17+00:00

Does for me.

burgundyskin · 2024-09-30T00:21:03+00:00

Yes. Its more or less how I acheived true inner game/peace. With or without women.

Im willing to bet most incels have narcissistic/helicopter/emotionally abusive parents on some level.

_FIRECRACKER_JINX · 2024-09-28T17:38:19+00:00

2024-09-28T20:39:25+00:00

no. therapy is not helpful for the type of men who want to “seduce”. Plenty of men who are not that type but date women, but not for you. If you see yourself as a “masculine” man who wants a “feminine” woman then do not under any circumstances go to therapy.

tilldeathdoiparty · 2024-09-28T22:04:28+00:00

If you are using therapy properly you should be improving you confidence

Title	Does Therapy help with the game?
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Date	September 28, 2024 5:29 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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