Don't chase

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-05-31T13:03:23+00:00

It could be just me; I don't think I have ever had personality/romantic chemistry with anybody I have had commitment free sex with. Come to think of it I've never went on a date where money was spent with any of those same girls.

It is because there was no chemistry it was easier to stay detached and not chase, then for some reason they want to come over at night when I'm not exerting effort into getting to know them whatsoever.

The girls I actually want to know better are flakey. Let that be a lesson to everyone. The women that like you sexually sometimes aren't the same ones that you like personality- wise.

Defiant-Past6997 · 2024-05-31T12:26:14+00:00

I agree and tend to think it's pointless

It's literally impossible to take a girl who is clearly not at all into you and turning that ship around with 'game' and then sleep with her. Never seen it. Either in person or with pro PUA's

There's lots of coaches who adovate it, but the thing is, infield footage seems to confirm that it's like a 1 in a million time it works adn the coaches themselves can't do as they preach.

if you watch infield footage from all of the professional pickup guys, you see that basically all of their successes are on girls who were very receptive and who made it easy for him and flirted back and it was effortless

And their other infields are mainly the rejections where she wasn't interested and he tried to stay in and use all of his 'game' to no avail.

I can tell from within about 3 seconds of an infield whether it will be a rejection or not

I think the answer is basically to hit on girls. If they are into you, escalate. If they're not into you (not talking back much, ignoring you, never ever trying to help keep the convo going etc) then you're just wasting your time. You're not her type. Move on

Kinda like how boomhaur from king of the hill does it lol

Go_Brr · 2024-05-31T16:22:32+00:00

Aye don't chase just pursue. Let them know you're interested, demonstrate what you can offer and just be around..remember they pick you for sex/dates..

We pick for life

JeffeDude · 2024-06-01T04:29:17+00:00

How does this actually work?

If I don’t ever say anything or make a move then nothing is ever going to happen. Women aren’t going to throw themselves at me or even message first. It feels like I have to chase and put in all of the effort for it to have a chance at working.

PainFreeDating · 2024-05-31T18:05:39+00:00

So don't chase people who don't chase back? Honest question: What's chasing in this case?

Title	Don't chase
Author	amazingarora
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	May 31, 2024 12:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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