During your seduction journey cold approaching did you go from 0 results to finally getting laid?

Creative-Big-128 · 2025-10-21T08:03:13+00:00

I never did approach at all. But one time i just randomly cold approached one girl who was walking her dog, all I know is she coming over with her dog next day to my house and we used to hookup for a long period . Since then never approached again someone. Just keep in mind one thing, she is also human as you, so nothing impossible

johnny-faux · 2025-10-21T10:50:37+00:00

6-8 months. i was a virgin all throughout high school and started cold approach summer after i graduated. i was a social retard until it finally clicked

Kylearean · 2025-10-21T12:51:42+00:00

From 16-23, I was in "nice guy" mode. I would be "nice" to every woman I was attracted to, thinking that "if I'm nice enough, they'll fall in love with me". Obviously this was completely wrong. Every woman is surrounded by "nice guys" who try to cajole women into liking them without being genuine. Most women see right through this thin ploy, and will keep you at a distance because they instinctively distrust your intentions.

The only thing you actually need to master is being genuine. This isn't the same as "be yourself". Being genuine means that your inner game matches your outer game (using our local vernacular). When you improve one, you should be bringing the other up to match it.

When you interact with anyone, male/female, they'll pretty quickly determine that if you're not genuine, you can't be trusted. Trust is crucial to your success.

Model attractive behavior. This is why rule number #1 and #2 exist: #1 Be attractive. #2 Don't be unattractive. The second rule isn't redundant. It's a reminder that your behavior can be disingenuous and therefore unattractive.

Acrobatic-Show3732 · 2025-10-21T12:07:26+00:00

Yes.

BigLC98 · 2025-10-21T15:16:58+00:00

Can you elaborate on inner game and outer game?

DirtySanchez8--D · 2025-10-22T13:03:05+00:00

Only after a lot of time and effort, yes.

Severe-Doughnut4065 · 2025-10-23T03:52:19+00:00

First girl I cold approached was at hoco and asked if she wanted to fuck and we were friends with benefits til I got my first long term girlfriend.

Cornichonsale · 2025-10-21T11:20:59+00:00

A fake expensive (watch) can help

InvestigatorFull1364 · 2025-10-25T23:41:29+00:00

For Daygame there is very high attrition in the beginning. Simply put the barrier to getting a lay is “at least competent” to “very competent” … because you cannot get lucky on the street like in a nightclub. It is not uncommon to see 1000 approaches with less than 10 lays (mine was 8 at that point). Eventually it averages out to 1 lay per 30-60 approaches

But if you wanna see stats, here are beginner ones: https://coffeedaygame.wordpress.com/2025/06/26/learning-daygame/

And here are advanced: https://coffeedaygame.wordpress.com/2025/06/16/my-2025-daygame-stats-climbing-mount-improbable/

Title	During your seduction journey cold approaching did you go from 0 results to finally getting laid?
Author	AscensionInProcess
Upvotes	10
Comments	21
Date	October 21, 2025 5:45 AM UTC (9 months ago)
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