Emotional rollercoaster

devonwillis21 · 2025-08-29T04:02:00+00:00

The real answer is to just be yourself, make mistakes, make jokes, tease her, stand your ground, have opinions, get into arguments, dont be scared to mess up some things, all the natural things that comes from opposite sex interactions. The key is just to make sure after all of this you still be your authentic self and overall kind person. Doing these things and being an asshole at the end of the day will get you dropped off so fast, you get away with alot more and can illicit much stronger emotions if a woman knows in the back of her mind that you're truly a decent guy. Just make her question herself.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-08-29T06:37:57+00:00

"It is said" yeah. But it's bad advice. If you do that, you'll only get a girl into you who has an anxious attachment style. And you'll be rejected by women who have a secure attachement style. And for a relationship you definitely want the secure attachment types.

It's also toxic to do this on purpose to someone. Don't play around with people's feelings. Be consistent so they know what they can expect from you.

Life-Income2986 · 2025-08-29T03:49:37+00:00

You get on the roller-coaster. You don't do anything to make it go up and down, you just ride it. The roller coaster is called 'Connecting with someone you're attracted to'.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-08-29T13:00:38+00:00

Guys tend to act cool and shit when they go out with a woman. It’s all “cool” emotion. That will end up being boring.

Express yourself; if you don’t like something then say it. If you disagree with what she said then say it. If you’re upset then express it. By doing that you create a tension, it’s gonna be good dynamics. She will look at you as a genuine guy, not just a guy who acts cool and agreeable. Most of the time those dynamics lead to sexual tension.

Title	Emotional rollercoaster
Author	Opposite_Section3051
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	August 29, 2025 3:34 AM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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