fastest way to find a FWB/Fling?

JackSquirts · 2026-04-16T03:08:12+00:00

Fish in all the ponds. Make a great online dating profile for every app you can use for free. Swipe and message as much as they'll let you. Go out and hit on every girl who smiles at you (and isn't getting paid to), go to bars, clubs, everywhere that people are socializing. Go on dates, flirt and escalate, be honest about your casual intentions.

Odds are it won't work from the simple standpoint that 1) you're going to be trying too hard (even though that's exactly what you need to do), 2) you probably don't have the game to pull it off in general (otherwise you wouldn't be here asking how it's done), and 3) you're not working with a flexible timeframe.

There's a lot to be said about finding what you when when you're not for it because not trying so hard and putting a timeframe on it, allows your game to develop and for you to luck into more shit.

Lenovo_Driver · 2026-04-16T03:53:50+00:00

Be someone women want to spend time with or be around. Make no promises or assurances for that to be the case

They actually have to want to do it. It’s the next step up from being someone that guys want to be around.

The fastest way is money, the next fastest is being cool. That’s gonna vary by your age but the older you are, the more of point 1 you’re gonna need to be cool. That’s why they say men peak in their thirties.

It’s when they’re still attractive and the ones making good money or have a lot of it have the most options.

Osiris_Raphious · 2026-04-16T13:42:34+00:00

"Fastest way": Lower your standards...

Thats it.

Go to the bar, approach some 3s and 4s (or those below you in any and all aspects of social judgment), and just have fun saying anything. If you are anything above their status they will just go with it, and if you arent an asshole and a dweeb, you can easily make friends with them and sleep with them. SO be kind, respectful, be interested in what they say, and they will be interested in whatever you say. Throw in some genuine compliments (GENUINE) and thats it.

They will have fun, you will have fun, dont be a dick, dont be rude, or arrogant. You make a friend, they get validation and respect from you, you get to have a friend and sex from them. Its a win win.

But you have to accept that they are not going to be someone you are all that attracted to, which is the key to a fasted way to make a fwb/fling.

In reality its how all seduction works, but with the hot ones, its harder as they have quality attention from quality guys. But with the low status women, all you need is to validate them as a person which they deserve, and show them some appreciation and attention sexually and friendly, and they will accept because they also want sex, otherwise why are they out to meet people... With less quality status people its easier to be yourself as you dont have expectations of failure, or try as hard, and you dont need to peackock and upsell yourself.

The trick to taking this to high value people, is being high value yourself and have confidence and something worthwhile to offer in personality, time and wealth. But for anyone on the low social status this isnt necessary, just being yourself and being friendly, kind, upfront, and a good time together is all thats needed. (thats why women can get with many guys they choose, because women are the thing men chase, where as men are conditionally loved)

saryiahan · 2026-04-16T03:08:07+00:00

College girls worked for me

animist_anarchist · 2026-04-16T05:48:41+00:00

Build a tinder profile that says looking for a mommy. The height, build, and babyface won't bother someone who specifically looks for those kinds of things in a dynamic. As long as you don't mind being baby boy 🤷

Delicious_Honey6918 · 2026-04-16T07:44:42+00:00

Be good looking

Pragmatic_Since-87 · 2026-04-16T02:59:14+00:00

I’ve heard hitting up girls thru TikTok are good flings… but your height is going to hurt you (cause now days women want 6’5 dudes 😂) or cold approaches could work if your game is tight. The dating game is cooked anyways. People trying to find 90s love in 2026.

myowndiamonds · 2026-04-17T08:32:33+00:00

Bro u 30 wtf Go to the mall,bar where ever you can find a female that catches your attention(shouldn’t be hard hell you can walk outside),walk up to her don’t hesitate!!you got 3 secs before your mind start giving you reasons to not approach her. Say whatever comes to your mind (some weird that prolly get her attention) last thing I believe theres a lot to be grateful for a lot of of people don’t even make it to 29 that aLONE is special And don’t chase it fr keepin it a 💯 the times I got the most 🐱is times where I weren’t even thinkin bout ts 🤷‍♂️

fucking_righteous · 2026-04-16T08:31:16+00:00

This approach always works for me

-PinkPower- · 2026-04-16T15:41:51+00:00

Download tinder and have no standards. I know a few women that will take anything they match with. If speed is your only concern it will probably work.

V3X390 · 2026-04-16T04:05:06+00:00

Work out. Swipe while you’re in college areas. Deliver good D. Maybe buy her some food and drink.

Negative_Weekend_508 · 2026-04-20T00:17:10+00:00

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Key_Measurement4448 · 2026-04-16T03:49:26+00:00

I'm down

PlatypusDifferent851 · 2026-04-16T04:18:35+00:00

Be tall and white.

Title	fastest way to find a FWB/Fling?
Author	lfg141
Upvotes	108
Comments	37
Date	April 16, 2026 2:49 AM UTC (3 months ago)
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