FEAR: the only thing stopping me from doing everything

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-08-05T19:35:14+00:00

these are the things i've done to conquer fear - mma, dance classes, in public youtube style pranks / public performances, karaoke, improv, skydiving. At this point there's no point to focus on fear killing exercises anymore, just attempt practicing.

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-08-05T19:50:42+00:00

Feel the fear and do it anyway.

Bruno91 · 2016-08-06T15:38:15+00:00

You have to realize that fear is just a feeling of pushing your comfort zone and doing something that doesn't come naturally to you.

Everytime I feel fear or anxious I push through it. It pays off and my confidence boosts. An example, I have always had the same job since high school I recently decided I wanted more pay and less hours (in school atm). I've never done the interview or resume process before and I just started applying for jobs that interested me. I was scared of the uncertainty of not being able to get a job or being hired and failing. I pushed through and applied and am starting a higher paying job with great hours and benefits. I could have listened to that fear and stayed where I was at, but I'm glad I didn't and I look forward to the next time I seek employment because I know I'll kill it!

aswjacob · 2016-08-05T20:48:09+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4rmg14/4_steps_to_feel_fearless_approaching_women/

nskg · 2016-08-05T20:48:23+00:00

Recognize that the surface level fear is hardly ever the thing you are afraid of. Do some digging. You can change things in your life, but true change will come when change you how you structure your thoughts and what you believe. Explore your brain

Peachesandteacup · 2016-08-06T01:14:33+00:00

Practice and experience eliminates fear. This can be with a woman, job, public speaking anything really. If you fear rejection then go out and speak to as many people as possible. Do what you fear and you will conquer it.

bugxter · 2016-08-06T02:42:44+00:00

Also a pretty decent survival horror.

HugoJP · 2016-08-06T20:22:45+00:00

Don't speak of becoming fearless, that's impossible.

Speak of acquiring great courage.

Greg Plitt said something along the lines off; "A man with only courage on his side can accomplish anything." "If there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do us no harm" -Les Brown

If you were completely or close to being "fearless" you wouldn't even need pick up theory :)

The only way to expand your comfort zone is to push its boundaries, take massive action or create a "buffer overflow" (google that term).

Fear will never move out of the way. "If you can't beat them, join them." Learn to make fear your greatest ally. One who can master fear can master life.

whatupjeremy · 2016-08-07T06:27:48+00:00

Go out.

noahnough · 2016-08-05T23:45:00+00:00

Don't ever approach and talk to people. You will most certainly die a painful and slow death. That's why no one ever talks to anyone else.

Title	FEAR: the only thing stopping me from doing everything
Author	noahnough
Upvotes	37
Comments	20
Date	August 5, 2016 7:20 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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