Feeling very lonely

7Birdies · 2022-06-26T12:43:45+00:00

Seducing women will not help you here mate. I recommend a therapist or some good friends.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-06-26T14:57:49+00:00

Start with friends first bro.

noturboyfriendsorry · 2022-06-26T16:04:26+00:00

You’re gonna have to keep fighting on and by yourself. The world doesn’t give a fuck about the average man no one is gonna save you except yourself.

2022-06-26T12:11:06+00:00

I’ve been there. I don’t know your situation but you’re not alone. Life is very random but try not to read too much into it. Try to hand on.

lelouch_2002 · 2022-06-26T16:31:36+00:00

Take those advice from some one who was so lonely that the only thing he talked to is his journaling and he was crying every single day alone at point i really forgot how to smile and he tried to suicide 3 times one of them he went to the hospital

I went through all of that and now i have my own company i m in the best shape of my life and the happiest i ever been

So trust me i know what are your feeling and what it takes to change the situation

1) phisical exercise: it s the most important thing i done to come over depression

2 ) journaling: just write your feeling and ideas with details it s gonna help you soo much to understand your self and release negative emotions

3) meditation: just give it a try for 1 month i challenge you not to feel way much better

4) dont wanna make the comments too long so i m gonna say adapt the good habits and get rid of the bad habits keep your hard work for 2 year i swear to god you gonna find happiness again and you will be above avrange since you would learn in the process mindfulness, descipline, gratitude, and soo much more

You already suffering enough at least do the hardwork so you can change your situation

Hopefully one day those bad days become just memories

trundle32 · 2022-06-26T12:28:28+00:00

Dm me

lilyskully · 2022-06-26T19:28:59+00:00

Invest in yourself and people will come to you

OnlyInterest2041 · 2022-06-26T12:06:26+00:00

Well i have seen women with ugly guys plenty of times and even get pregnant by them lol so keep trying and maybe you’ll get one. Half the good looking women out there have a short scrawny ugly bf lol.

2022-06-26T12:20:42+00:00

Bro break down your problems to small pieces and have them in order on which needs urgently to be fixed for example:

I’m looked at as creepy and ugly.

Do you shower? Do you put anti sweat deodorants? Do you shave or wax? Do you properly pronounce words? etc.

Quantum-117 · 2022-06-26T15:04:34+00:00

Like someone else said get a breakdown of your current issues and manage them. Get a dating coach. It’s a life changer. You have to work on your self image as well as work on your character. It doesn’t change overnight bud.

TheCream · 2022-06-26T15:59:56+00:00

It’s really lame to say but it’s true on a fundamental level: you have to love yourself first before trying to get someone else to love you

hachapurik · 2022-06-26T12:28:38+00:00

Watch Sycret life of Walter Mitty 🙏

EthicalSeduction · 2022-06-26T12:41:45+00:00

It sounds to me like you could be dealing with other things too, such as depression or something similar. This is common so you are by no means alone. Therapy can help a lot because they work one-on-one with you AND they are trained professionals (unlike those of us here on reddit). I know they can be expensive but if you call one and they cost too much they can often point you in the right direction for getting help from someone else you can afford.

2022-06-26T14:12:38+00:00

It sounds like you have some social skills and mental health issues. I suggest you work with a therapist on your mental health, and socialize to improve your interpersonal skills. You also sound upset which is distorting your conclusions which are probably painting things as more black and white than they really are. If you don't like your looks, there is a lot of you can do to improve them.

2022-06-26T14:24:57+00:00

Stop caring and you’ll start winning.

dud230 · 2022-06-26T14:54:37+00:00

In other words, you are too broken to be repaired. I get that since I am like this too. Dead giveaway.

CenturionLegio · 2022-06-26T16:26:17+00:00

in my opinion it comes to this question, are you willing to suffer to overcome this period of your life with great struggle effort and discipline... or give up

oiamo123 · 2022-06-26T16:50:57+00:00

Don't let that tear you down man. There's a lot more to life than whether or not other people like you.

I was talking to this 60y/o fellow yesterday actually. I was out riding my bike and I seen he had a harley and decided to spark some conversation.

He told me about how he's been to Cuba, Maui, the caribbean, he bought his bike in the spring, he likes to fish etc etc. all while not being in a relationship.

Only thing holding you back is yourself my man.

Go get yourself out there and start doing the things you enjoy and want to do.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-26T17:41:46+00:00

Unfortunately to get someone to love you first you have to love yourself and you clearly don’t. So, you are in a vicious cycle. The only way to get out of that cycle is to love yourself first without the need of girls.

Superbraw · 2022-06-26T18:45:23+00:00

Hey bro! 👋

I know the feeling. I was in a dark place before and now things are going a bit better.

I am more at peace when I started focusing on my self. I started eating better (cooking my own dishes to avoid fast food) and working out. And I began to try to avoid the feeling of be liked by others. I (sorta) gave up on dating due to the stress and anxiety that I will go through.

I recommend you to watch Sisyphus 55 on YouTube, he talks about life and other things. Especially this video https://youtu.be/pJUvvC_Bv5k

I hope you get better.

P.s: watch Everything Everywhere All At Once. It made me tear.

Title	Feeling very lonely
Author	throwaway6472proton
Upvotes	13
Comments	30
Date	June 26, 2022 12:02 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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