Note: Let me say that this if my first FR, but I've been reading the material here for a good couple months and recently applying. This was the first time I felt that I’ve confidently applied the techniques and improvements.

Background: I'm a college student.

Story: HB 8 in my French class (I have a yellow cold right now, so I’m quite infatuated with Asians). I talk to her while walking out of class, and get her to go to lunch with me twice. Number exchange, and we study together one time. I ask her to do something later, but she flakes. A couple days pass, I ask again and she flakes again.

Fast forward a week with no communication outside of French class. At this point, I assume that she is uninterested due to flaking and her not initiating contact. This is a blessing in disguise, for it becomes easy to get into the not-giving-a-fuck attitude. Thursday rolls around and I ask her to come over to my place and study. She agrees. We study, in my room (getting her comfortable with the location), all the while I am inducing kino and keeping frame. Also being better than her at French helps me keep dominance. We hang out with my friends in my living room when we are finished. While on the couch, more kino, getting her to lie on me. When things start to die down a little, I say that we should go watch "planet earth" back in my room (bitches LOVE Planet Earth). You guys can infer what happened from there. She asks me how many girls I have slept with the next morning, I play coy, but eventually give her a response to which she says "Well, I'm not unhappy with that number." (my mistake on not keeping frame there)

The next day (Friday) she text messages me after class asking what I am doing that night and if I want to "study French." I tell her when to come over and that we'll be drinking. She comes over, and we "study French" for a while. She stays over and leaves in the afternoon on Saturday. Later, while I am at a party she text messages me and asks if I want to come over to her place to actually study French, and also "study French." I asked her to come out but she said "I'm just lonely and wanted some company." This threw up some red flags for me, but she was hot, and it was terrible outside, so I headed over there after I finished at the one party instead of hopping to several others.

We end up "studying French" for most of the day on Sunday (so much so that my little Frenchman starts to hurt), all the while her acting more familiar and what I would consider girlfriend-y toward me. She asks me more personal questions (last relationship, about my family, etc.) and the dreaded "Is this only just about the sex?" I told her that it was not (need help fielding this question).

Today, she tags along with me to get lunch, with her kino-ing me in a very girlfriend-y way.

She now wants to study later tonight, as well as tomorrow. Which I’m assuming means that she thinks she is going to get to stay the night. I am genuinely interested in studying for a test we have coming up, but I’d like to be able to get some sleep in my own bed. How do I study with her without her staying over?

Now, my feelings on this girl are mixed. On one hand she is gorgeous, is quite good in bed, and has similar interests to me. On the other hand, after spending 3 days in a row with her, I've noticed that she seems to be the clingy type, and it's worried me that she has suddenly had so much free time for me.

I’d like to be able to get to know her better, but still keep my space so that I can spin plates. And if things end up not working out, I’m still in the same small class with her. Any advice would be appreciated!