Hey guys! This is my first FR. I've been reading seddit for a while, and slowly implementing the basics (stong eye contact, kino escalation) in my day game to make them second-nature when using them while out. Last night was the first night that I've went out feeling really ready to go and try some of this shit out.
I thought it might be helpful to post a FR from a party rather than a club/bar for some of the younger sedditors such as myself.
[9:00] Started drinking in my dorm room with friends. We're all freshmen in college, 18-19 years old). We have a lot of guys coming out (which we don't usually do, I mostly just go with my main wingman) tonight. I believe there were seven of us. I thought originally this would be a problem due to more competition, but it ended up really helping me as I'll discuss later.
[10:30] We leave for the party and get on the bus to go to the parties. My school has two campuses, one of which being where people live and the other where the parties are. The buses run all night, so they've affectionately become known as the 'drunk bus' due to all the drunk kids riding it from 10pm-4am.
All the seats are taken, so we start walking. I see a HB7 with a group of friends, all sitting down. The group was mostly girls I wasn't interested in, but two of them were pretty cute. I announce to my group of friends "I'll go no further! There are women to talk to!" making sure the girls hear me while simultaneously establishing dominance to the girls.
I introduce myself to the HB7. The first thing I notice is how powerful eye contact is when meeting people. Before tonight when I had went out and not thought about it, girls would sort of meet me and almost brush me off/keep looking for a better guy. But every girl that I gave that strong eye contact to was practically glued to me.
I'm flirting with the HB7 a little bit, occasionally putting a hand on her shoulder (kino escalation can be weird when your target is sitting and you're standing) when she laughs to establish some comfort. One of my friends drunkenly accuses me of being gay, maybe to try and get the girls attention? I ignore it and laugh, she laughs too and asks if I'm gay. I never know what to do in this situation, I get asked if I'm gay every so often because I dress much better than anyone else at my school where the norm is sweatpants and the school's hoodie and I usually go with it. I told her I was, and that I had never even kissed a girl. She looks at her friend and asks if they would be able to make me straight. I say, "it's worth a shot" and go in for a kiss. Still on the bus, mind you.
We make out for a few minutes, nothing too intense as everyone is looking at us and laughing/high five-ing. She asks how many girls I plan to hook up with that night, I tell her I don't know, but she'll be in good company. Her cute friend asks if I want to make it two. I felt a bit shameless, but I was fairly drunk and just looking to have fun. So I smile and say "Of course" and go in for girl #2. Once again, just causal kissing, nothing intense.
[11:30] We get to the party, it's just getting started. I'm making eye contact with every girl I see, and getting a lot of smiles. I start greeting every girl I see when the second big aspect I've learned from seddit kicked in. Social momentum was huge. This is where the big group of friends came in handy. My friends were being AFCs and didn't want to open on girls, and my wingman was playing beer pong. So I start opening alone, and it went swimmingly. While talking to a HB7/HB8 set, I had about ten friends of mine come up to me and high five me, or just yell out my name, or so something giving me enormous social proof. I had guys coming up to me and trying to talk to me because they saw the fact that girls were receiving me so well.
One guy even acted as a wingman for me without knowing it. I approached a set of three girls that he was already talking to and joined the conversation. For whatever reason, I ended up telling the girls my nickname was Meat-hook (as a joke), since I'm not the most rugged looking guy. This guy starts backing me up hardcore. Putting his hand on my shoulder and saying "This is a trustworthy guy, I believe him" and other things that made it seem like we were long time friends. He was trying to prove himself too much, and the girls responded accordingly by kind of moving away from him.
I go over to the dancefloor, bored of just talking to people. The two girls from the bus are dancing, and I start dancing on one of them. We start talking and they start calling me Kevin 2.0. I ask who Kevin is, they say he's someone they almost had a threesome with. I asked them if they've ever had a threesome, which they hadn't. I said we should try the second closest thing and do a three way kiss. They oblige, and all of a sudden I'm kissing two girls at once. From that moment on, every girl in the place was on me.
The party started wrapping up, and I was saying goodbye to some of the HBs I had talked to. I would say "It was so nice to meet you" in the most overtly sexual way possible, because the night was over and I had nothing to lose now anyways. Girls would be completely taken back by it. They would skip a breath and respond accordingly, practicably asking me to come back with them. The responses I was getting were unreal, they were using voices/tones I usually only hear girls use during foreplay.
I would say the main thing I learned was use the force of the party. Make friends with everybody, and everybody wants to be your friend. You become the most interesting/desirable male in the room and can do whatever the fuck you want once you get most of the room on your side. The only problem I ran into was converting attraction to actually making out. I could tell a few girls were very attracted to me, but I couldn't think of any move to actually get that escalation from kino to kissing. Any ideas/tips?
Overall, it was a spectacular night and I'm kicking myself for not starting this stuff earlier. I'm hoping that I'm able to have similar nights to come. Thanks for reading!
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