This is my first field report. I don't do much 'pick up' in the sense I go looking out for girls. I get plenty of date, I have about 2 a week average and all with HB8s at least. However I am always looking for a good time and someone I can really tolerate and be around. Call me picky I guess. But this is something that kind of blew me out of the water.

The set up. I am a pretty popular guy at my boxing gym. I'm friendly, help others, everyone knows my name, I'm good looking and I work hard. I got to talking to an HB9 and she seemed pretty friendly and I asked her out. The date was to a cool place with great food down the way from the gym with pub trivia. This gives me a chance to show off some smarts, yet keep it casual enough for conversation.

I get there and she is about 15 minutes late on my clock but right on time by hers and I neg her about it some. Things are going well. As the night goes on she's being kind of a smart ass and she literally tells me 'If you haven't noticed I'm kind of a smart ass and that's not going to slow down.' Fair warning right? Well eventually it stops getting cute and just starts to get on my nerves. We're 2 pitchers in and we're joking and she's still being a smart ass. I mean excuse me if this was a bitch test, but it was getting on my nerves a lot and was a major turn off.

I call it an end to the night when the pitchers run dry and she goes to the privy. My favorite waiter comes up and congratulates me on getting a date with her hotness, but I tell him she's just not for me. We walk out and she says we'll see each other around the gym and we hug goodbye.

What I can't understand is what went wrong. Did she just beat me down with a shit test? If so, why should I have to put up with that nonsense? I'm not going to date a chick who's kind of a bitch. To me this also reflects how she might act around my friends and family. See to me, I'm not explicitly looking for a girlfriend, but I won't say no if someone is good enough for that. Did I do something wrong here? I have the instinct that she was just gaming me, but it wasn't the game I wanted to play so I just quit.

So here are the real questions. What did I do wrong? Why should I have to put up with that crap when I'm already a high value male and I know it? Should she have tried to conform to me at all if she noticed I wasn't biting at her teasing after a while?