Friendly or IOI

t-t-t-tasty · 2018-05-26T20:32:12+00:00

Assume. The. Sale.

Aethlingo · 2018-05-26T22:43:59+00:00

I sympathize with your problem. I've spent a lot of time in hippie type communities and there are always cute girls who are very friendly and touchy and it's very hard to know if they are in to you or if it's just the hippie vibe. I wouldn't assume any touching are IOIs (if she is that type). It seems like she's sending you mixed messages, so you should definitely go for it but don't have too much emotionally invested in the outcome. If I were you I'd ask her if she wants to grab a coffee (or whatever) after class. If she says yes and you guys hit it off even a little I'd step it up and ask her out for a drink.

judahman8 · 2018-05-27T06:51:20+00:00

The truth is it doesn't matter. Its great to notice iois but im going to try to pull a girl regardless of if she gives me iois or not. I only count iois to know when I have a good chance at kissing her.

Go on an instant date with her. After yoga invite her to do something on the spot. Say your going to get a healthy drink from wherever and she should tag along. Preferably somewhere in walking distance.

Then invite her to do something you are going to regardless of if she comes or not. Dont make it seem like a date, more like hanging out. Me and dome friends are going to so and do this Friday, you should invite some of your friends and we should all go hangout.

hotwomyn · 2018-05-27T12:07:40+00:00

She doesn't like you in a romantic way. She does think you're nice and polite, that's about it.

In my opinion you blew it already, just forget her. If you really like her do this:

a) don't think about her

b) try to meet other girls

c) next time you see her make her laugh but don't try too hard

d)" what are you doing later, my roomie is playing a rock show come with. or let's grab a drink later. or let's catch a movie later, etc." Super chill casual vibe. If she says no or maybe or anything in between forget her and say no worries hun, I'll see you around. In general I'd say a yoga class is a terrible place to meet women, I'd just forget her.

areyoureadyplayerone · 2018-05-28T03:25:47+00:00

Just be upfront. Most girls have no idea you want them if you're just existing in their daily lives. If rejected, that's your yoga class man.

MrSixShot · 2018-05-26T18:52:05+00:00

Fuck is “IOI??”

Title	Friendly or IOI
Author	mushi5838
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	May 26, 2018 6:23 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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