Gaining weight/muscle makes a huge difference?

prodigy2throw · 2016-04-28T04:28:00+00:00

As much as people on this sub hate to admit, yes, women like attractive men. Being more fit shows you care about your body and that you have discipline.

Doobers · 2016-04-28T03:06:28+00:00

Nice gains bro. Looking good is a plus but its more about feeling good about yourself. Chicks can smell it.

neeners9223 · 2016-04-28T02:49:13+00:00

Yes and no.

Yes if you're rocking a "dad bod" some girls are into that and same goes for jacked guys.

Even moreso no because if all you want girls to look at is your body then you're in the market for a shallow ass girl.

Yes, having a good body may be a plus to some girls but most women are looking for a guy who is outgoing and fun with a decent personality. Improve more than just your physical appearance.

NotMyBestEffort · 2016-04-28T08:18:39+00:00

Evolutionary Psychology/Biology - you are 30 pounds of muscle closer to being able to give her an Alpha gene child. Women, without thinking, are attracted to physically fit men. Closer to female ideal male = way more fuckable

High-minded_Hamster · 2016-04-28T02:51:53+00:00

I would say most girls like their guys fit. 130 at 6'1 you're basically a stick. 162 at least you look like you're in shape. I would say this makes a huge difference.

Wamaeno · 2016-04-28T09:10:36+00:00

I'm working out for half a year and gained some massive boobs. An old classmate saw my muscle and said something like "oh my God, now the Girls must be totally down!".

In fact, that's not really the case. Girls in laying in bed with me like to see my boobs and I caught one always coming back to my biceps when stroking my arm. But it's obviously not the case that every girl is instantly DTF or starring at my muscle or complimenting me. Which shouldn't be your motivation for working out btw :)

DirkDieGurke · 2016-04-28T14:39:25+00:00

I'm sure you're OK as long as you're not "fat" and have good body posture. IE: not slumped over with forward shoulders looking beta. Whatever you have achieved so far is a good sign to anybody.

Remember, girls don't think like guys. They want personality, but fitness is a plus.

seldor · 2016-04-28T15:25:06+00:00

Don't say female. Say women or girls.

2016-04-28T16:29:07+00:00

I spent the past two years working out consistently and getting into wicked shape. I've learned that yes, women really do appreciate a guy who is in good shape and takes care of himself, but don't expect it to make up for a boring personality of lack of confidence.

I notice women check me out, and often they look at me and smile, where before this would literally NEVER happen. It's a huge bonus to look good when you're approaching women, but don't expect it to carry you very far unless you're talking to a very superficial woman. However, when you're in bed with a woman, then you get the whole "oh my god I love your body, can I feel your muscles, you look so good" etc.

lofiharvest · 2016-04-28T17:38:25+00:00

I'm 5'11 and 165 but used to weigh around 130 in HS. Im telling you being skinny is almost as bad as being fat. I have a friend who is in his mid twenties, making bank, but is probably 125 soaking wet. My ex used to always comment 'He's a nice guy, but he looks like a child'. Not surprisingly he has had dreadful luck when it comes to women. Women are biologically hard wired to be attracted to strength. To all guys who are underweight IMMEDIATELY ERASE from your brain the thought of IM PERFECT JUST THE WAY I AM. Nobody is perfect and there is always room for self improvement (emotional, spiritual, career, fitness, etc). Don't get all offended and butthurt when you discover you possess a flaw. Address it, grow, and move on.

PittyParra · 2016-04-28T12:23:02+00:00

In most cases girls just want a normal physically fit guy. They don't want to cuddle with a juice bag but they do want to grab at some muscle.

In your case your weight and height made you look 5x skinnier than let's say a guy who was 5'11"

Congrats on the gains and don't stop there. Strive for 15-25lbs more. But take it easy on fat consumption.

DeltaEmerald · 2016-04-28T15:32:28+00:00

That's 32 pounds of more meat that the ladies can get from you, and a portion of it is muscle. That's sexy.

reddiot666 · 2016-04-28T04:09:57+00:00

Don't overdo it. You don't want to be some dumbass guido, hanging out at the club every weekend drooling over slutty chicks. Just play the guitar. Any chick with half a brain is into that cheesy serenading crap.

Title	Gaining weight/muscle makes a huge difference?
Author	fastifguy
Upvotes	3
Comments	17
Date	April 28, 2016 1:21 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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