Getting laid on vacation?

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-03-14T03:30:28+00:00

Do you not know how to small talk and build attraction non-verbally? Starting slow by saying hi and having some small talk about something that's happening or something about her style/demeanor is way more calibrated than begging for numbers. Eye contact is key here.

Also, it's "Let's exchange phone numbers", not "can I have your phone number". Lead, don't beg. Be fun and playful, then once you can see some IOIs or that she simply didn't leave, you can offer to exchange contact info or socials. Should be around the 8 minute mark in the conversation and after a high note of it, so after you both laugh or so.

To keep a conversation, lead her into a fun game or story about herself that also teases her. You've got to have fun for a few minutes and say everything that comes into your mind before she hooks, which is when she starts asking questions about you. Once she's hooked, dial it down and let her invest in the conversation.

Read a book Daygame Mastery by Krauser. Gonna be helpful. But also read Always talk to strangers. Simply small talking is a natural way to see if there is attraction and building it from there. If you're still struggling, watch some videos on free associating or chain associating by Owen Cook or other RSD coaches.

BurnItDownSR · 2026-03-14T07:23:07+00:00

If you're only now worrying about improving your seduction skills when you have a vacation coming up then you're already too late. You won't suddenly become Hank Moody in a couple of weeks.

Just go on your vacation and try to enjoy everything else and then come home, learn seduction, actually consume resources all the way through instead of just skimming a few pages or letting a handful of videos play in the background and at the same time go out a lot and practice the stuff you're learning in preparation for a vacation you have next year.

The reality is, whether you're at home or in a country you've never been to before, there's hardly any difference when you've actively learned seduction instead of just getting lucky from circumstance. If you suck at seduction at home, you're gonna suck in other places too but if you get a lot of success at home, you're gonna be really successful in other places too.

dismalprognosis · 2026-03-14T16:56:49+00:00

Imo your best bet is to either use a dating app if you have a strong profile or to run some game at a bar at night. If you're talking to a girl and she's interested, you mention you're only there for the night, and she agrees to come back with you, odds are you're in the clear. You can approach straight with intent like you're suggesting, but sometimes it's better to play the longer game and start casual then escalate with flirting

I haven't done much vacationing lately but the last time I was out of the country, my brother and I went to a bar meant for travelers and he approached some Aussie girl sitting at a table who looked like she was waiting for someone. She was waiting for a group of other travelers- we all got to talking and I started talking up this girl from the UK. We both kept talking and doing our thing, end of the night we both got laid

Dandys3107 · 2026-03-15T05:26:09+00:00

I get a feeling you expect some clear instruction how to make a girl like you in 100 easy steps. There is no such thing as certainty and rigid formulas when it comes to human interactions. My point is, could you make a casual and interesting interaction with a random stranger without wanting anything from it? If not, you need to work on those social skills by getting lots of experience to feel natural with it. Sexual context is almost always in the air between man and woman in their procreative bracket, but first you should introduce some comfortable and laidback atmosphere, get some positive emotions on the board, create some connection between you, be playful with your conversation, crack some jokes, present yourself as an interesting guy that is fun to be around. From such solid foundation you can start to introduce sexual dynamics with presenting your sexually attractive traits, getting into more direct and bold topics, melting consecutive touch barriers, step by step. But first, can you even make a friend by talking to a stranger, or at least conduct some pleasant and interesting interaction with them?

jackthehat6 · 2026-03-14T14:08:27+00:00

it's a numbers game. Just say hi, ask some questions etc. Flirt a bit if she seems receptive to the approach and isn't giving you one words answer etc.

If you are her type, she'll flirt back a bit and it will take care of itself from there

Nabbzi · 2026-03-14T19:45:30+00:00

My last vacation I slept with 12 girls on 21 day holiday.

Best is two ways:
Online dating apps and nightlife.

Why not daygame you may ask? It is too time consuming. Its good for your home country when you not in a rush. But if you have only few weeks and want to get some lays under your belt you should skip it.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-03-16T16:40:50+00:00

One thing i learned is that women go out for fun men go out to get laid. So the problem a lot of men have is that we want to get laid as quickly as possible, instead of enjoying the moment and the conversation. We go in thinking "omg she's beautiful how can i get her to fuck me?" and you get desperate.

The "hey i just got to tell you, you are beautiful, can i have your number" does not work in any situation because she just met you, she does not know your vibe, if your a serial killer, if your some weird guy who collects doll heads, etc. You gotta show her your vibe first. So women will only put their walls down if you talk to them like they are anybody else, if they see that being around you can and will be fun.

In any situation just go up for a pleasent conversation. Start up with something that shows them "i think your cool and just want to chat, but if you dont that's ok im going to have fun with or without you".

So for me, when i approach i go to someone and complement something first. But not their looks, if you complmenent their looks first they think "ok this dude's just tyring to fuck". So i complement something they are wearing usually. Something like "hey just wanted to say i like that outfit/shirt where'd you even find something like that". Sometimes the woman will be open to talk sometimes she wont. It's recognizing "is this woman willing to talk to me or not?". Usually if they give short answers, kind of seem awkward ill try conversation for a minute or two but then kind of let it die off. But if they legit seem super interested in saying where tehy got that shirt, and how they love it, etc. Then i know im pretty much in and ill try to find common ground. There's something that even the most introverted people can talk about ofr hours. Like i can talk about sports for hours. So im trying to find that common ground. So if the woman tells me she's from chicago, ill be like "oh really, north side or south side?" they tell me "so which is the better side?" as a joke, etc and throw in a cubs/white sox joke.. Trying to sleep with this woman should be one of the last things on your mind. Because once you make it the basis of a conversation you wont do well.

Like i said women go out for fun men go out to get laid. So it's a transaction, you gotta give them a few hours of fun if you even want them to consider fucking you. Dont expect 5 minutes of conversation to get you liad. You actually have to try and im sorry going up with that one cheesy line is not trying. Im not saying that my method 100% works, i probably still get rejected more than i succeed but changing to that i see more success than i did before.

Just accept that many times you will get rejected, you will feel like a fool, you will wonder why you still get rejected, etc. It's about rolling with the punches. One time i walked up to a woman who was with her girls and had a bottle in her hand. I went like "oh shit girl, all that for yourself? That must be a hell of a good drink". She looked at me up and down basically said "this aint yours so ymind your business". 5 years ago, id never talk to another girl again for months. Today, i said "cool have a nice one" walked away and chilled with my friends and then started talking to more strangers.

Downtown_Milk_6909 · 2026-03-14T03:03:08+00:00

Zipper wide open

Title	Getting laid on vacation?
Author	SKYLEX2000
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Date	March 14, 2026 2:25 AM UTC (4 months ago)
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