Getting laid

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-02-10T07:05:35+00:00

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throwaway193867234 · 2025-02-08T21:42:54+00:00

I'm not gonna act like I'm a Romeo but I've gotten a decent amount of play since I cleaned myself up - so regarding conversations, the majority of guys ask boring dry shit like "where do you work" or "what do you do". I guarantee the woman you're talking with has had that conversation literally over a hundred times, and she's sick of it. She has to really be into you to put up with it.

The best way is to be playful and flirty. That's easier said than done but surely you've had moments where you meet a woman and you're both smiling at each other and the chemistry is there and you guys start playfully teasing each other - you feel safe teasing each other and being playful because you know you both like each other.

You gotta bring that vibe with these girls, even on dating apps. As a man it's your job to create the atmosphere and vibe. They will follow your lead. I've always been surprised how seemingly boring girls can become playful and flirty the moment I start being that way. It's like they were just waiting for that

Embarrassed_Peace277 · 2025-02-08T21:48:15+00:00

I’m glad you got out of that downward spiral and picked yourself back up.

You mentioned this chick who had a bf, that’s awesome. Maybe befriend her and her BF if they are ok with this, not only will this combat loneliness and keep you out of that rut but you’ll be able to get an understanding of how they vibe together.

Dating apps are a bit of a nightmare, and texting isn’t for everyone. Try not to chat to someone too long before meeting, because not only is it boring, it kills the tension too. Be playful, flirty and tease her a bit if the conversation is too logical, this will come with practice and frankly by just not giving a f*ck. If she gives clear indications of interest ask her out immediately. If you think she might want to get to know you more share a fair amount about yourself (woman need to get a strong sense of knowing you before meeting, which is usually why they keep you as pen pals), but have a cut off period, set boundaries and be clear that you’re looking to meet. When you ask her about herself try to use qualifying questions as if who she is matters a lot to you, selectiveness shows you’re not desperate and potentially high value

DaygameCode · 2025-02-08T22:31:37+00:00

Ok, here is a checklist of things to do while you have an interaction with a woman in order to get dates and get laid.

1 - Opener and setting the playful flirty tone right away. Wanna establish myself as a flirt right away to avoid the small talk and NPC vibe.

2 - Accidental physical touch to break the touch barrier organically.

3 - Switch from impersonal to personal topics of conversation where i get her to talk about herself so she can show the type of person she is and we also can build a solid connection

4 - Make sure that we are isolated to set the stage for flirting without “activating” her defences (slut factor)

5 - Express what i find different about her to justify in a solid way my romantic/sexual interest in the next step. (Getting her to believe she is not just another girl of the countless that i might hit on)

6 - Show/express sexual interest by flirting sexually to create sexual tension and avoid being friendzoned.

7 - Intentional physical touch to test the waters about whether she is ready to be kissed and reinforce the flirtation

8 - Kiss close | Nothing sexual just to reinforced that something romantic happened, and that she is loving a fantasy

9 - Phone close | Suggesting a date idea and if she agrees, then take her number

10 - Consolidate after phone close by talking 2 minutes more fantasising out loud about the upcoming date with her and leave.

11 - First text | An inside joke about the encounter to remind her of the emotional mood she was in before i left.

Ideal time for the approach: 10-15 minutes

Ideal place to approach: Train trip, public parks/beach

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anonymoushandbalance · 2025-02-08T22:26:02+00:00

Bring ugly girls home to cuddle and watch a movie then initiate sex

Lie say whatever it takes to get laid

Build from there, you'll learn

Impossible-Ground921 · 2025-02-08T21:40:18+00:00

Baby steps.

Your dating profile and text game likely has a lot of room for improvement. You should be able to generate multiple dates per month with the apps alone. Then it is just a matter of creating good logistics where you can score.

You wont get the best results with online dating alone though. You need good cold approach game to get most of your leads. If you get good at this, you wont need online dating anymore.

I’m going to DM you.

Crate224 · 2025-02-09T01:21:24+00:00

I dunno

DaygameCode · 2025-02-08T22:04:35+00:00