I have cold approached a bit last summer. Bookstore, bus, grocery store even the street. I felt good about myself. In total I approached maybe 7 times (1 a week).

And now I am slacking off. I wanted to get comfertable and in a routine cold approaching. It took me a lot of pushing to actually do each time.

I still strike as much conversation up with strangers as possible. Just no seduction.

I am going to bars lately. And I want to get to the point I go to a bar and just approach someone without a wing.

But my whole problem is: The first fucking thing to say. I am always looking for a reason to go talk to someone. But 99 percent of the time there is no reason other than I find her attractive.

Any advice getting past this point? Thoughts? Opinions?