Respect and picking up women

MonkeyMannnn · 2017-12-15T14:51:12+00:00

Lol no, dude. In fact, having respect for women and empathizing with them is pretty much the best way to go about it. Would you want to feel cheap and used after sleeping with a woman? Obviously not and women don’t want to feel like that either.

Stringdaddy27 · 2017-12-15T15:08:07+00:00

I think most people on here suggest you shouldn't put women on a pedestal, not blatantly disrespect them. If someone is suggesting that you should hold no respect for nor should you empathize with women, they're not worth listening to. I think the vast majority of us have respect for women and the game.

Pipedownplaya · 2017-12-15T14:51:49+00:00

it ruins your game if you pedestalise them. that's the bottom line

a lot of guys feel the need to internalize the concept that all women are whores or bitches to effectively degrade their value and be able to game them properly. it works, but those same guys are massive narcissists who no one really wants to be around.

the fact is that girls as flawed as anyone. they are not angels as you might perceive. "A good girl is just a bad girl who hasn't been caught yet"

It is better if you appreciate a womans beauty and game purely off your desire rather than gaming off your envy against a woman. we all go through it though.

and the thing about fucking a girl is, as long as it's pleasing you, it's pleasing HER. that's how her biology works. that's masculine/feminine polarity, nothing wrong with that. you don't need to get on your knees and eat her pussy.

p.s. taking a girl for a drink is different from getting her drunk.

hope that helps

natephant · 2017-12-15T14:58:26+00:00

Where are there posts about women being sluts and not caring as long as you get laid?

I’d say the majority of the posts here from people who are actually successful in picking up women emphasize respect.

bubba2match · 2017-12-15T18:36:06+00:00

Sex and love go hand-in-hand. Respect and love are two sides of the same coin. If anything, respect on both ends-male and female- enhances the love and therefore enhances the sex. If sex between two people is lacking in either love or respect , the relationship is tenuous. I recently read a book called "Love and Respect", which espouses the idea of an unconditional respect toward men and an unconditional love toward women. With this in mind, I'm now looking for a woman that I feel I CAN unconditionally love, and who CAN unconditionally respect me. I guess if you view game as a way to insinuate yourself into a woman's life through lies and manipulation, then yes... respecting and loving would ruin game. However, if you don't see game as exclusively for douchebags, then no...respecting women and respecting yourself; loving women and loving yourself do not in any way hamper your progress in this game.

ImJustSo · 2017-12-15T16:24:42+00:00

In posts on this subreddit there are almost always comments that women are whores/sluts.

Say what? Ignore those comments. I have been around here for quite a while and I have not seen this as a norm. Sure, there's sexist and misogynistic attitudes anywhere that men congregate, but I'd like to think the majority of us actually like women and our mothers. :P

Tokemoke · 2017-12-15T22:39:05+00:00

My train of thought has always been to show respect to women. Even in the rare instance where a girl is rude to me I will not say anything negative to her. There is enough negative energy in the world.

In my opinion, having a code that you live by is one of the defining traits of a man. Relating to your question I also have friends who will hook up with a girl any way, any how. For myself I have rejected girls who tried to get with me because something about their personality just rubbed me the wrong way. I see it as a triumph not only for me but for man kind as a whole. Kind of reclaiming our dignity in a modern time where feminist media paints us all as sexual degenerates.

Eskeeetiiit · 2017-12-15T23:07:05+00:00

You need to read this if you want to learn anything. Your right, respect does not ruin your game. HOWEVER this guy does everything right. Learn.

shakespeareSMG · 2017-12-16T02:12:44+00:00

It’s a jungle out there.

the1399element · 2017-12-15T20:26:09+00:00

Respect women, but don't make them a priority in life. Even if doing so gets you laid because in the end you will feel empty.

The problem lies is most men think respecting women is being a "yes" man and sacrificing who they are for them thinking it would be sexy.

Or respecting them by never challenging her. Challenging her(if you're in a serious relationship) "No, we're not going to do X thing. We're going to do this." when you challenge like that you are basically establishing boundaries which most men don't do with their women.

Game in my opinion is all about the experience, it's not JUST the sex. It's the whole seduction, the experience, the people you meet, the connections and so on.

So to answer your question, I'd say yes respect women but what society tells you is "respect" isn't really respect it's been a pussy.

trpmkb12 · 2017-12-15T16:26:54+00:00

Being a dickhead to women will attract women with low self-esteem, and sometimes beautiful women have low self-esteem. Empathy like you mentioned is much more powerful generally and can work with everyone.

Title	Respect and picking up women
Author	weallwantsomethink
Upvotes	16
Comments	34
Date	December 15, 2017 1:50 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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