Fwb and love behaviors

ImJustSo · 2017-11-29T14:38:52+00:00

I fall in love with girls after like 5 seconds, but feelings do not matter in any situation, they just exist in any situation.

Actions matter, actions are taken notice of by others.

What action (behavior) should you avoid? Simple. Don't fuckin say, "I love you!" 😃

Love doesn't keep people around each other, it doesn't keep a jealous spouse from murdering a cheating spouse, it doesn't stop people from cheating.

Love just exists and everyone chooses to be kind or an asshole. Everyone tries to keep the idea of love untarnished by saying, "Oh, he obviously didn't love her if he killed her." Naw, the truth is we do fucked up things to those we love, and we can also be kind to those we love.

So just fall in love whenever the fuck ya want and don't be a bitch! 😄

natephant · 2017-11-29T14:28:21+00:00

Who cares though?

Are the feelings shared? Or are you trying to avoid one sided feelings?

Or are you just trying to avoid romantic feelings to perpetuate your macho social status?

albus_scirocco · 2017-11-29T15:18:49+00:00

Do whatever the fuck you want with her, just don't do it only with her. Spin plates.

masochistone · 2017-11-29T19:21:53+00:00

Last fwb I had left me with 2 boys to raise alone. It is hard not to have feelings for someone you are having sex with. Good luck though

MagnusRoundstone · 2017-11-29T15:20:06+00:00

Don't do anything other than bang and leave. If you start going out and doing things, hanging out in a non-sexual capacity, having deep conversations, etc, you are no longer FWB. You are dating.

TAKEtheUPBOAT · 2017-11-29T13:59:40+00:00

Correct, don't do those things. Set clear boundaries AT THE BEGINNING

POOPY_CHALUPA · 2017-11-29T16:12:23+00:00

Here's the thing: when you have sex and orgasm, oxytocin is released. Oxytocin is the 'love drug'. You can read more about it's effects here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin

My experience is that cuddling, spending the night, etc... pale in comparison to the actual deed of fucking. So do you man, but understand that most of the time, who we fall for and who falls for us is out of our control.

Title	Fwb and love behaviors
Author	weallwantsomethink
Upvotes	24
Comments	29
Date	November 29, 2017 10:18 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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