Girlfriend posting ass bikini picture on instagram, where do I draw the line?

Sheroclan · 2019-07-22T22:56:17+00:00

Nah man you leave that shit alone.

You're just asking this because you're insecure. Why does it bother you? Cause she potentially will be getting DMs from other dudes? Pro tip, even if your girlfriend isn't posting photos like that she's still going to get DMs.

You need to get into the mentality that your girlfriend is hot as fuck, and it would be foolish to not think other guys would be into her for the same reason you are.

My girlfriend gets hit on all the time. Welcome to having an attractive partner? I've just got her wrapped around my cock and I don't need to worry about anything else.

If your girlfriend is into you then don't worry about it and just ask for transparency. If she isn't into you, then why are you with her lol? My girlfriend and I have a rule that anything that regards the relationship (being hit on/DM'd) is talked about. Shit goes both ways.

Remember that she's chosen to fuck and be with you because you're a sick cunt.

TheXXL · 2019-07-24T06:51:56+00:00

Just ignore the majority of these comments here, they're pretty much all bullshit. The only valuable advice is this: are you OK with it? No? Say it. You don't have to tolerate anything you don't want or like, and if she thinks differently, you both are not on the same page, and therefore not compatible. It's easy as that. Draw boundaries! She will do the same, and frankly, women are extremely straight in enforcing their lines, nothing comes easier for a girl to break up of you overstep her boundaries. Do the same.

braziliangangsta · 2019-07-23T17:20:56+00:00

If your girl is posting her bare ass for everyone to see you are literally a cuckold.

No other way to word it.

Put an end to the behaviour or the relationship with this whorez

NextSpinach · 2019-07-22T23:53:26+00:00

People here will tell you to accept this, but personally I wouldn’t date someone that acts like this.

The thing is though, if you try and change her you will seem insecure. So ask yourself, you can either put up with it. Or date someone else. There is no other options really.

Force her to stop and she’ll resent you and you will be on the path to neediness and cheating.

erZoption · 2019-07-22T21:44:47+00:00

Is your fear that she will in some way cheat on you?

LoneWolf1404 · 2019-07-23T00:16:11+00:00

Not really the subreddit for this, but you sound a bit insecure. I really don't get it why it bothers you. She's looking for validation, not some other dick.

If you keep acting like this though, she might get annoyed and start posting these for more than just validation.

It's in your hands, you'll decide how it goes from here on.

ilikepie145 · 2019-07-22T21:54:13+00:00

Tell her how you feel about it. I see that you don’t wanna be controlling but at least you can make sure she isn’t trying to talk to other guys

Kylemoa1 · 2019-07-22T23:38:09+00:00

Hear me out on this one, all you should have said was "Make sure you send me the originals! You know those are my favorite." a left it at that. This means whatever she posts or will potentially post you would technically be apart of thus maintaining respect.

RuleBreakerrz · 2019-07-22T22:46:15+00:00

If she's your girl, and you don't want other guys seeing her like that, you better put your foot down now. You let this go, and you're opening the door to more of this behavior. A woman will do what you allow her to do with situations like this. She's giving you the option right now to stop it, so if you don't want this, you better tell her now. She'll respect your strength, even if she gets mad in the short term. And just bring it up, don't beat around the bush.

Man you sound very unsure of yourself, don't worry. Check out r/Alpha_Male_Dating to get the confidence and mindset you need for situations like these.

Ierax29 · 2019-07-22T21:53:13+00:00

What's the problem with a girl seeking external validation ? The way I see it is that she's doing you a favour by playing the trophy girlfriend stereotype. If you're insecure tho then it doesn't really matter what you say to her since you'll probably subcommunicate it. Work on your self-esteem bro or you're in for a painful ride.

Extra_Challenge_7245 · 2022-09-11T03:27:43+00:00

My perspective on this: if woman genuinely are doing this for “themselves” they would not need to post this online. The family of the gf obviously does not want to see their buttcheeks all over the internet. Their promiscuous friends might want to see that, but only to reassure themselves that it’s okay for them to do it themselves. The only demographic that advocate for bikini butt cheek photos on Instagram are horn dogs and feminist that want to destroy the nuclear family. Don’t let fem-centric/liberal beliefs gas light you into thinking your wrong. We are the FIRST generation that has to deal with this. Put it like this. What would you do if your girlfriend is holding your hand while y’all are walking down the beach 🏖 and all the guys are lusting over your girls ass? If you don’t approve of her showing that ass off in person to men why would you be okay with her doing that through the internet where men can shamelessly lust over your gf without any consequences? Many men won’t speak up about this because they don’t want to upset and eventually loose their GF but hey man it’s up to you!

Title	Girlfriend posting ass bikini picture on instagram, where do I draw the line?
Author	mrich5971
Upvotes	5
Comments	23
Date	July 22, 2019 9:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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