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[–]Titan_Astraeus 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's not even the concept themselves but their application. All those apps run on a freemium model. If you're not paying or very attractive, your visibility is super low. Ruined by greedy corps trying to suck money out of their small target audience (the small percent of people subscribing/paying multiple times).. does really suck
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[–]Former_Candle1330 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean by reverse age relationships?
[–]Nighthaven- 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Older woman, younger man
[–]Former_Candle1330 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You think I should date 30 year old women for practice?
Im thinking dating uglier girls my age as well could work to not be intimidated and build confidence and work my way up. That depends if uglier girls have high or even higher standards its gonna be bad I don’t know, do you know?
Makes sense guys do this. Women are worth less and less every day after 26 or so.
[–]Nighthaven- 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No comment. I primarily focus on fundamental truth, regardless of how it feels. How you perceive the world is up to you.
[–]Former_Candle1330 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean by that? I follow the same principle. A lot of times people believe what they want to believe.
I always believed what is true against what you feel like believing.
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[–]Demonarke 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah.. I don't know where they get these stats but I say bollocks.
[–]PondScum420 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Google it, you’ll get numbers between 4-7. Our grandparents fucked more than us lmao
[–]Demonarke 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I know the numbers, I'm just saying I don't know if they are accurate since they rely on unreliable testimonies, men tend to up their numbers and women tend to lower them.
Most women I knew in college had a very high body count, some reached 20 and higher.
[–]PondScum420 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, but for every sorority girl that fucked 20 guys, there’s people that pretty much never have sex. There’s also people who only stay in long term relationships and then later get married.
I think we sometimes have this feeling that everybody around us has a better sex life than us, when really a lot of people go through long dry spells, esp if they are people who are perpetually single / don’t seek committed relationships
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Exactly , I feel like I have to kiss up to her just to keep things going. And I hate that
[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I mean is she into you? Girls make that part clear usually. But yeah why would she need to have game when ur always on the approach
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yea I've had many situation where it was made pretty clear that they're into me . It's so weird but it feels like they start the conversation with me, and hit me up and still expect me to do more work in the conversation,??? Like they hit me up and then go dry and leave me on read ..
[–]miminabacaxi 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Believe me, if they left you on read they are not that interested.
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[–]QuentinTarantulatino 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The worst part of Tinder isn’t not getting any matches. I’m average-looking at best, I’m not expecting a conga line of 10s in my inbox. The worst part is when the matches I do get have no interest in having a conversation. I’m tired of performing to a series of “lols” and “yeps” and “nopes” and “wbu”.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's entire videos and articles about how imbalanced the online dating market is. If you aren't getting matches, you likely never will; the men who get matches get TONS of them. The bell curve for men is a steep, skinny one, and most of us aren't part of it
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fr , it's a validation game man
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[–]Iistendipshit 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women above 30 usually have game, no matter attractive or not. The younger ones don't have game, if they're attracted to you they'll usually become something, if we're doing it, what is called "thirsty" or "needy". They also might become very explicit, to the point if we were the ones doing it, we'd catch a restraining order
[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Walk away. Delete this moronic app, delete your profile and go meet people in real life. Idk why men do this to themselves, literally lowering their self values for 6/10 below average girls
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao I do meet people irl tf? U gotta chill. Most the people I've met are from class or something of that sort . Still same issue
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see your point but your title (girls have zero game) is especially true online but it's a bit less worse in real life (only a bit less worse lol).
Thing is, why would girls need to have game? You think guys would develop game if it was the other way around?
[–]ProductivityMonster 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
there are some less attractive looking girls with some amount of game, although not too many. Also, they have to develop some game when they get older/have kids/etc.
In the meantime, just leave if she won't share the burden of carrying the conversation. Look for CONSISTENT RECIPROCATION.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bruh but like I have to settle basically? 🤦♂️🤦♂️
[–]ProductivityMonster 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
not for a long-term relationship, but probably for a short-term/one-night stand one. Regardless of how good she looks, if she won't carry a conversation, there's nothing there.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know I usually just stop talking to em it's just annoying
[–]DontTakePeopleSrsly 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
That’s 90% of people, not just girls. Eventually you will learn to bounce and go find someone more interesting, not every girl is for you.
[–]GursavakhSingh 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They do make moves on guys. Just not you
[–]Sun_on_my_shoulders 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good thing you’re not bitter or anything. 🤣
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lol not really bitter , I've come to terms with it but i wanted to know if others have my same experience
[–]itsnevrogre 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If a girl likes you she’ll most likely put more effort into a conversation just keep that in mind
[–]kathruins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i have this problem with girls and guys. some people dont know how to conversate.
[–]Marriednotdeadd 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Consider the ratio of guys to girls on dating apps. I’m going to assume just based on previous experience it’s wayyyy more guys. Hence more messages for women. This platform, for instance, isn’t specifically for dating but I get more messages questioning a potential hook up than what I ask for. I prefer a place like this where I can speak my mind and someone will message me based on a response, not a photo I just throw out there. Anyone can put up a pretty photo. Look for words, not looks and maybe you’ll find someone with more substance that likes the back-and-forth conversationally…
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They have abundance that guys don't have
Guys have to work hard to get laid and girls have to wonder if the guy they are dating is just wants to fuck them and nothing more
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh yea definitely , I'm not complaining about it I just want to unerztand what I can do to combat this
[–]oneitissufferer 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's okay. Hes just doing his moderator duties of ruining the conversation for everyone. God, this website is pathetic. I wish somoene would start an alternative where overzealous moderators dont come to the rescue. One that people would actually use.
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[–]hottieballer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s just not that into you.
[–]Lord_Goose 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If I sense this early on in the conversation, I cut it off. Aka simple answers, no questions. etc. No wasted time.
Yea again as I've said before it's just annoying
[–]Lord_Goose 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is. And nobody needs to subject themselves to it unless they are desperate.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes I get u, see I actually don't use dating apps. My main issue is girls will actually take interest to me irl , get my insta or number but they'll be extremely boring over text and at that point I'm not even interested anymore , like literally I hate it I'll just lose internet so quick ... all I'm thinking is maybe try to hang out quicker or sm?
[–]RHeldy_Boi 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good mod <3
Usually I hate mods because most I've seen are entitled bitches on power trips, but you actually tried to help instead of just cutting people off and threatening them with a "ReSpeEct My AuUtoRiTaHh!" attitude.
Good Job man!
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Maybe it's not mutual ??! Prepares for downvotes*
[–]the_vendetta777 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here are my thoughts on how to approach this…. Many of my past matches also did not know how to hold a conversation but they were interested.
So this tells me they aren’t entirely focused on me, cause at the heart of it all girls love talking. So I will try and if I really like the girl, I will impress her somehow take that boring non existent convo up atleast one notch… then I’ll say listen I got work to do bye… at least now if she is interested she will approach.
Once they like talking to you they will not stop and the dating and sex and possibly relationship can all occur after that.
Moral of the story: the more boring and poor the conversation skill is, the less time I’ll give them and instead encourage them to give me time.
P.S try to get them on a phone call or even better a video call instead and then make her talk.
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