Lately this is becoming more and more of a occurrence in society as a whole. To those who actually believe nice guys decided one day to become super nice in attempts to manipulate women, I will give you advice from a women.

I think this one is a bit above /r/relationships paygrade. Your reasons for not wanting to do this are... weak. Basically, you just don't want to, even though it's the option that makes the most sense for your marriage. Putting your own wants over the needs of your marriage is pretty concerning.

This is in response to a guy who wife cheated on him, disrespected him all because he refuse to mutilate himself. This is how women see and teach men, women claim they don't want to be on a pedal-stool , but make no mistake they enjoy their female privilege and will try to make you a tool.

In other words, girls teach/shame men into being nice guys who cut themselves , oh btw the guy she cheated with, she made no such demands, and said it was the best sex ever.

Recently I was on a date with a young successful girl, she own her own business and was making some serious cash. She stated to me she was tired of dating losers and wanted a successful man to match her.

In other words, "I'm now more mature and want a mature and no longer want assholes"

The entire dinner I had her laughing but she kept assisting she was incredibility beautiful, eventually I ask for the check and she says , "You aren't going to pay" I said no. She explains how she "Forgot" her wallet. I pay my half + tip, and walk out while she is yelling and crying.

Now most of you would probably pay given the fact that she had no money and this is the core value of the nice guy, don't ever do this, you owe her nothing.

Two months later she calls me out, and yells at me on the phone. This is a good sign she was thinking on me for two entire months, claims I was the worst date ever, I told her your not my type, she says "You didn't even give me a chance".

A little more arguing back and forth, I'm at her place having sex with no condom and anal to.

Moral of the story is, society is going to push you to be a nice guy, than complain you aren't really a nice guy for doing what they said, its a total mind fuck with this girls, I did the opposite of what she wanted and did what I wanted.