Going out right now to try this new method: if she gives an excuse to the firm date, i'll walk away from set

Live-LoveMatt · 2014-07-16T20:36:55+00:00

The theory is great. No need to be a dick about it though, you don't have to just walk away.

How about instead try saying something like "that's a real shame, you seem awesome but it looks like we'll be too busy for each other. Well, nice to meet you." and then say goodbye.

Just randomly walking away just seems a tad childish.

Anyway, like I mentioned, the theory is great. I have a "fuck yes" or no rule. If a girl isn't saying 100% fuck yeah to hanging out with me, then she's a no, and I move on. It's fairly easy and much more time efficient to just approach girls until you find ones that are very receptive, than it is to convince unreceptive girls that they like you.

EpicStumblin · 2014-07-16T21:56:16+00:00

I like the idea, a little extreme in self amusement but, F*** it, sounds fun. I wouldn't ask her for coffee, I'd tell her you're getting coffee with her, probably easier weeding out flakes and you're not asking her permission you're telling her whats going to happen. I may try it, good hunting.

just-jake · 2014-07-17T02:36:27+00:00

Let me know how you go. This sounds good on paper but likely difficult to execute in real life.

Imho the conversion will be very small. Females need time to build trust and rapport which leads to a date. That's what messaging and texts help build.

Very interested to hear the outcomes. Good on you for trying it out.

trustmeiminnocent · 2014-07-16T21:53:56+00:00

You're learning. I like it PUA, I like it.

Asking a girl what her schedule's looking like? I commented that on one of your posts the other day! Fantastic.

It'll take some time to find out works for you. The thing is, it's so hard to give insight on your game as we don't see or hear you!

Big tip, Don't be reactive. This screams 'I care that you rejected me!' to me, not ' Alright, that's fine. Have a good day or something like that'. A simple affirmation of it and saying goodbye would be cool. Don't know your personality but works for me is being laid-back and relaxed- which I naturally am- and that works wonders. You might have to explore that to find what fits. Don't worry about being 'high-energy' and that other stuff, just project your best self. Don't be 'high-energy' for the girl, do it because you truly PUA_Baddie, that's your true nature. And yeah, if you're approaching a girl solely to get her number or get a date, she'll see right through that. Be like, "Hey that girl seems interesting, let me see if I like her". That's key. If you like her, ask her out, if not you had a great conversation and made her day. You can't lose with that mindset.

Hope this was solid advice.

jblzk · 2014-07-16T22:20:16+00:00

Not very clever in my opinion you don't need a firm date. It's useless to make a big deal out of it. But suit yourself...

Title	Going out right now to try this new method: if she gives an excuse to the firm date, i'll walk away from set
Author	ThePUA_Baddie
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	July 16, 2014 8:24 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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