"Good girl"

tramplemestilsken · 2017-01-16T17:37:50+00:00

This is a good answer to any flirtatious request. "Are you going to buy me a drink?" etc..

"Maybe, if you're a good girl." "Idk.. are you going to be a good girl and hang out with me for a bit longer?"

It's a pretty visceral male affirmation response. Chances are their dads called them this and it brings back a lot of warm and fuzzys. Fortunately for you they attribute those good feelings to you when you say it. Now they want to be YOUR good girl.

t1mman · 2017-01-16T15:55:15+00:00

Well, this is a good example of the idea that most of what is said is non-verbal. Without the way, the context, the voice, the tone, it could backfire as well as be a good thing.

Now I can only see a dude saying “Good girl” the same way he does to a dog!

Dolbby · 2017-01-16T15:39:01+00:00

What?

Hoek · 2017-01-17T01:41:53+00:00

This should be in your standard sexual escalation vocabulary, because it's making the top of literally every single "Girls, what makes you instantly wet" thread on AskReddit for literally the last 10 years.

It's playing with fire however, and you shouldn't do it if you're not fully accustomed to fire at this point: "Good girl!" communicates the type of assertive alphaness and kinkyness that you need to back up with congruent confidence. You can't deliver a "good girl!" and then ask her if she's okay and if she wants to go elsewhere, for instance.

If you're into BDSM, this is a no-brainer and is how you communicate by default. "Flirt how you fuck."

Beautiful.

CalPolyJohn · 2017-01-16T17:37:19+00:00

Seems like it could either come across as smooth or creepy depending on how the rest of the interaction is going or how she perceives you.

a_terrible_sound · 2017-01-17T01:15:32+00:00

This is the dumbest shit.

bubba2match · 2017-01-16T18:05:51+00:00

I fucking love it. Great idea, man! :)

Jaycoozi · 2017-01-16T17:49:20+00:00

Then you ask them if they want a treat, they drool all over you.

ManWithHighHopes · 2017-01-17T05:49:01+00:00

I guess this is a very situational term.

I've seen it work but only with certain situations

failatsomething · 2017-01-16T18:26:48+00:00

"Good girl" is a powerful reward. I use it in bed a lot to reward her for eg doing what I ask. Positive reinforcement :)

Title	"Good girl"
Author	aknutty
Upvotes	13
Comments	20
Date	January 16, 2017 3:19 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5obcia/good_girl/
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