Great seduction advice for the stereotypical redditor who feels "forever alone" [xpost r/DepthHub]

TofuTofu · 2012-04-07T16:16:38+00:00

Nice. He basically sums up seddit for the lay person.

I recently reached out to the FA community to ask if we can help them out... Their problem, as far as I can tell, stems from an overly negative world view. Negativity that keeps them from approaching, and negativity that makes them unattractive when they do approach. I don't know how to help these guys out and it bothers me.

radioreceiver · 2012-04-08T00:38:22+00:00

This is something that I figured out shortly after I joined seddit (been a lurker for about four months now).

Once I was able to start treating the relationship scene as a game, it all fell into place. It broke down a huge, complicated topic into more manageable subcategories: body language, eye contact, shit-tests, kino, etc. Instead of having to throw myself into the deep end and practice "relationships," I could get better at each of these things individually. Seddit also gave me what the general path of a relationship "should" look like, so I'm not ever stuck in any "Shit, what do I do now" situations.

I've quit a lot of things after finding out I wasn't immediately great at them. Placing human interaction on that list is simply not an option. So I keep going out, and keep having more success than I ever imagined I would.

ChokingVictim · 2012-04-07T21:53:50+00:00

Wow, that's a fantastic way to put everything. This is the kind of content that should be in /r/bestof.

thr_pkc · 2012-04-08T03:29:45+00:00

I'm glad this got posted. Before finding this community I always thought that attraction was just the naturals and unnaturals (which is a bad way, and usually untrue, way to look at anything in life).

I know looking at this as a skill-set has been what got me into this and it's changed my life, so hopefully others can get out of that FA mindset and change their lives for the better.

hhmmmm · 2012-04-08T18:59:55+00:00

That is good. Also it is basically summing up seddit but really importantly (for some people anyway, particularly those with a really negative view of seddit etc) doing it in such a way that he doesn't mention any of the lingo/short hand or seduction/PUAs etc.

Probably wont help those who don't want help but can help those who want it but have a strong aversion to seddit etc because of their preconceived notions that are made worse (and they think confirmed) by the language that has grown up around it all.

Title	Great seduction advice for the stereotypical redditor who feels "forever alone" [xpost r/DepthHub]
Author	gpua
Upvotes	82
Comments	19
Date	April 7, 2012 4:00 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/rxydi/great_seduction_advice_for_the_stereotypical/
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