Has getting ripped had a noticeable impact on your interactions with women?

t1mman · 2018-04-24T12:47:43+00:00

Being in shape doesn't impact only your physical aspect, but your mind as well. Our brain works better, is better balanced. So, maybe your "attitude" toward life in general and the "goal seeking instinct" woken with the work out.

I'm not a gym guy, I do running (marathons, races, and shit) and when I started getting result, my whole life changed. Confidence raised (making podium gives a hell of a boost!), I started seeking more and more goals, defining my self, putting myself first (the boost in confidence helps a lot), things like that.

Gals do dig guys in shape. As I said, I'm running and I'm doing 2 marathons per years since 3 years, did a lot of events before and I have a more "slim" shape yet, muscular (not "ripped" like the gym types) and I know a lot of girls are having a lot of fun playing around with me! ;)

I also get a lot of "lingering hands" when someone asks you to go by.

canarywocoalmine · 2018-04-24T14:09:38+00:00

I don't even think you need to be ripped. If you just have some muscle, they will notice. I started lifting in August of last year, have put on maybe 10 to 15 pounds of muscle, have arms and a chest now. I now catch more and younger women checking me out (I'm 49). One of the best experiences was my stylist, she's probably 30 and one of the most sensual women I've ever met (she's married, pregnant now, so, not nearly as sensual), at one hair cut, she literally felt me up and said "wow, you've been working out". They definitely notice, and you don't need a six pack, just some bulge.

LingeringGnome · 2018-04-24T22:04:51+00:00

Yes.

In my 20's I had a runner build, no fat at all. In my early 40's I have much more size, and some padding on the waist and do better.

women are much more disarmed, much more likely to approach me, engage in handsy KINO almost immediately on my arms and shoulders (I've had STRANGERS do this....just women come up and start touching me) and much more likely to engage in first night sex.

you DO NOT have to be the obsessive weird lifter who slathers on tanning cream and wear speedos. But having some bulk, wide shoulders, muscle on the arms is a very powerful tool.

singlecellfromearth · 2018-04-24T19:10:20+00:00

don't know what came first, the chicken or the egg. But going to the gym builds confidence as you get externally validated there. Do the girls notice the body (which helps) or do they notice the subtle increase in swag level when you feel confident about your body?

Either way it helps and I'm probably one of the smallest, weakest guys at the gym (that goes regularly).

zeppelinzoso · 2018-04-26T00:41:30+00:00

Think about everyone you admire, male or female. I bet they are all very accomplished and did difficult things.

Weights/Music/Running/BusinessSuccess all fall into the category of "Difficult Shit."

People appreciate and become attracted to other people that do "Difficult Shit."

eleminionur · 2018-04-24T13:06:31+00:00

isn't the idea that a good looking face or a ripped body should be irrelevant? It's all about game? (what you say doesn't matter, it's how you say it)

Title	Has getting ripped had a noticeable impact on your interactions with women?
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Date	April 24, 2018 12:11 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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