Hi seddit, I've been a lurker for over a year now and have been practicing pua for about two years. I just want to know if anyone local here on the islands, or someone who has come to the islands and has some experience knows if there is a difference between gaming here vs anywhere else in the world.
The girls here are somewhat conservative and are predominantly asian. Cold approaching whether in the day or even at clubs is considered creepy by most people no matter how well you come off. I've personally never heard a girl tell me that they started off anything more than a friendship off a guy cold approaching them. Even though we have over a million people living here, it still has a small-town atmosphere which is why I stick primarily to college, social-circle game (ironic considering all college campuses here have ZERO emphasis on greek life).
While I don't want to put the blame on anything else but myself, before writing this post I decided to do a quick search and came up with these results http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/search?q=hawaii&restrict_sr=on and see that I am not the only one who feels that Hawaii has a different level of game. One (extremely simplistic) example I can think of is the concept of appearance: working out, dressing well, etc. When I go to the mainland, I can tell that only about 10-20% of guys actually do this which is why you can stand out so much if you start. However over here, that number feels like it is at least 30-40%.
Every weekend, I do day game cold approaches, but those result in a 90% flake rate (again, its probably something I personally need to work on). I'm currently learning japanese in college, which should also open up my options ten-fold with the amount of tourist that come here. However, for this post I am more concerned with people who have experience gaming the locals rather than tourist.
On the last note, if there are any Hawaii local sedditors out there, hit me up! I've never actually found someone as into it as I am, and my friends are all afc/not willing to talk or commit to this type of thing so it'd be nice to have someone to sarge with.
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