Heeeelp

autodidacticasaurus · 2025-12-28T13:52:00+00:00

Just go and do your best. If she complains, be honest. If it doesn't go well, learn from it and move on with your life.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-12-28T17:29:31+00:00

With someone that forward you probably should've been vaccinated for HPV and Hep first. Wear a condom.

Pickledsundae · 2025-12-28T18:22:10+00:00

My advice would be: 1. Absolutely ensure there's zero chance of not being able to get it up rock hard (DM me if you want suggestions on sites if ya know what I mean). The anxiety I've gotten from the one or two times I somehow couldn't get it up and of not having something on hand just in case is crazy 2. Foreplay is important, even if she's already hot and heavy; start with kissing and tonguing earlobes, mouth, neck, moving down to shoulders, around nipples, switching from one breast to the other, before then licking nipples, going back and forth to kissing her and then making your way down south, going to same principle of avoiding vagina outright and teasingly tonguing thighs and surrounding areas. Once there, imagine you're a cat lapping up water. Just be sure, similiar to breasts, move from one labial side to the other, and spend time also in top middle clitoral area. 3. Sex wise, in missionary, I feel like you can get real deep by putting a pillow under her and also lifting her up somewhat in the air while you're on top using your hands behind her butt/behind lower back. Just make sure you have your face turned away from her hair so you can put that cardio from the gym to work and have a vent to not overheat.

Hope this helps

panthus1 · 2025-12-28T14:09:16+00:00

use hands, fingers and tounge as much as possible before sliding in and in-between rounds. if you slide in big chance you finish. do multiple rounds. but dont overthink it youre going to get lucky so its about you as well.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-12-28T13:52:16+00:00

Grab her hair and press her to yourself, to the bed. Be careful with teeth to teeth contact though. Just be passionate and don't be afraid to do things you want to do. Always act out all your fantasies. Just ask her to let you know if it's too much and listen to her. If she does say no to something, move to other parts of her body or do a lighter action like nothing happened. Focus on teasing her. Hump her with your leg gently. Make her ride your bulge. Have fun. Two steps forward one step back is generally the best way to build comfort during intimacy.

readonlyuser · 2025-12-28T15:30:14+00:00

Work the clit, ask how she likes it, check in occasionally, have a safe word

saulsn111 · 2025-12-28T15:42:15+00:00

Hold eye contact with her and tell her what you want her to do clearly and confidently. Giving orders to someone who enjoys being submissive really gets them going. So does praising them for successfully following your orders through.

Try not to put too much pressure on being “rough”this will happen naturally if it is going to happen at all.

Do not rush.

Most importantly have fun! Sex is a form of play

DuchessGumdrop · 2025-12-28T15:43:04+00:00

Consent first. “Rough” needs clear boundaries and a safeword.

OpinionThink481 · 2025-12-28T21:38:02+00:00

Stop acting like this is an exam mate. Just have fun and stop trying to earn her approval. She is not supposed to grade your performance...

Jesus... can't you just treat women as regular humans instead of judges?

rhodeshead · 2025-12-29T06:37:08+00:00

Yell "YEE HAW" while hitting it from behind, if she's really country she'll cum immediately

drhades_vn · 2026-01-01T09:50:00+00:00

Porn is not good but in your case, you should consider.

Firstly, find some hardcore and image you are the character. You have to train your mind as first.

Secondly, image what you will do in the reality. Try to make it as much details as possible, like you are filming a scene on that day. For instance, when you meet her in the very first moment, you will smile, look at her from eye to breasts than waist, ass... You will say some compliments. Go in the room, what you would do (based on the understanding of her and the porn films you watched). Try to make it as real as possible. From hold hair, push her knee to bj, command her to open mouth and penetrate hard in mouth... everything.

Thirdly, go on. Try to keep calm, although you are get high you have to keep calm to last that moment and keep her satisfy.

Next, about techniques:

- Focus on mind, not body. You are always the dominator, not serve her. Women like her doesn't like a weak and obeyed man.

- Use your hands at first. Slap, hold tight, push in her mouth, push and slap on her puss... Remember your cock is an award, don't give her easily. You should search some ways to satisfy woman just by hand.

- Lick breasts and puss in a good way. Hmm, just watch and practice (in my experience, lick in a long section is better than point)

- Finally, many man are afraid of, early come. Don't worry, you are young. If you come too early, just come in her mouth and comment she is so hot, just continue suck and swallow all. Continue to suck and make another round. That is the real strong man and she would be impressed.

Easy_Manager3026 · 2025-12-28T14:25:33+00:00

Just say that you don't have many exp and she would help you

Title	Heeeelp
Author	Immediate_Astronaut9
Upvotes	10
Comments	13
Date	December 28, 2025 1:38 PM UTC (7 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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