I am sure you've heard before that in order to be more attractive to women, you have to be confident, decisive, brave, driven, inspiring, and so on, and so forth.

The problem with that is, that you could very well be all those things, but you have less than a second to convey that when you first meet somebody. After that time has passed, you've been filed, catalogued, she's made a whole bunch of assumptions about you, and if those assumptions are unfavorable, you'll be spending a good amount of time catching up and convincing her you're worth her time.

That's a terrible position to be in.

See, it is much easier to make a good first impression and instantly get her attracted to you, than it is to dig yourself out of that hole filled with wrong assumptions.

How do you do it, though? Is it even possible?

How To Use Your Tone Of Voice To Get Her Crazy About You

I don't want to bore with a whole lot of theory, but there are a few things we need to cover before moving forward.

There are two basic tonalities out there:

Dominant Tonality: you're able to speak with authority. The people around you want to listen to you and follow you. This tonality is extremely attractive to women.

Submissive Tonality: you speak with doubt, and are unsure of yourself. Those who hear you will get annoyed with you very quickly, they will not follow your direction and most likely forget what you had to say almost the moment they hear it.

As you can imagine, the submissive tonality is extremely unattractive to the people around you, and it kills any chances you might have with women.

How To Develop The Right Tonality

A submissive person will often raise their voice at the end of a sentence, which will make them seem like they're constantly asking questions.

On the other hand, a dominant person will deepen their voice as they finish a sentence, thus projecting confidence and comfort.

They will speak slowly, taking long pauses as needed, while at the same time keeping their listeners engaged. They will not be uncomfortable with silence.

A person that's unsure of themselves will try to speak quickly, often in a chaotic manner. They will mostly be concerned with getting through what they have to say as quickly as possible, and they'll be uncomfortable being the center of attention.

So, if you want to speak dominantly, and become immediately more attractive to women around you, simply take your time to consider what you're going to say before you open your mouth. This will give you more confidence immediately.

Don't rush through what you have to say.

If what you had to say was important enough for you to get it out there initially, it's important enough for you to deliver it well. If it takes a little extra time, then so be it.

As you finish your sentences, lower your voice, so that you sound more like you're making a statement and not asking a question.

Relax.

If you're nervous, your voice will naturally become higher pitched and shaky, so before you speak, make sure you're relaxed and comfortable with what you're about to say.

If you feel uneasy about it, it's best not to say anything at all, until you can relax and be confident.

Your Chest Voice.

Did you notice how when you're really tired or in deep thought your voice automatically gets deeper and more drawn out?

That's called your chest voice. If you speak in that voice, you will not only have an easier time sounding confident, but you'll also sound much more attractive to women out there.

You can practice going into your chest voice by relaxing to the point that your voice naturally drops. It might take some trial and error to get it right the first few times, but once you get it, you'll be able to go in and out whenever you want to.

Don't worry too much.

Your tone of voice says a lot about you, and women are very good at reading tonalities.

If you try too hard, you'll come off as desperate. You don't want that. Instead, keep in mind that no matter what happens, you're going to be fine, and don't stress.

Now It's Time For You To Act.

The fact you're still reading tells me that you're very committed to improve your game. You need take the information I shared with you and implement it right away.

Once you start implementing what you've learned, you'll notice changes right away, so get to work.