I originally posted this in AskReddit because I also wanted to get the opinions of guys who didn't have much knowledge of this topic.

Now I want to hear from you guys at r/seduction.

Quick background:

I've been a dating coach for a few years and I've worked with the best in the business (one of my good friends, Cajun, did an AMA a few months ago). I've also been taking a lot of self-development and therapist training courses over the past 7 years (mostly Gestalt and transpersonal therapy). About a year ago I decided to combine my knowledge of both topics, and teamed up with a great writer (and very intelligent guy) to make this book as good as it could be. We've been working really hard the past few months, doing extensive interviews with men and women, and my co-author even quit his day job to work on this project full time.

I guess my overall message is: you don't need to change who you are, you just need to learn to better express your true self.

It's hard to come up with a title that expresses that and conveys the topic of the book.

We've been having trouble settling on a title, so I decided to ask you lovely redditors for your opinions. Here are some of our ideas:

Dating for Men: A Bachelor's Guide to Women and Relationships

Dating Your Way: A Bachelor's Guide to Women and Relationships

The Bachelor's Guide to Dating and Relationships

Playing the Field: A Bachelor's Guide to Dating and Relationships

Playing the field: dating, finding the right woman, and making things work

Dating Your Way: finding the right woman and making things work

What She Wants: a bachelors guide to dating and relationships

What She Wants: dating, finding the right woman, and making things work

What Women Really Want: a bachelors guide to dating and relationships

What She Really Wants: dating, finding the right woman, and making things work

The Smart Bachelor: dating, finding the right woman, and making things work

The Smart Bachelor: a man's guide to dating and relationships

The Smart Bachelor's guide to dating and relationships

What do you think? Any feedback is very much appreciated. Also feel free to mix things up and come up with your own suggestions. Thanks Reddit!

And don't hesitate to ask me any questions.


Edit: So far the best suggestion is Authentic Confidence: Dating for the Real You

I'm thinking: Authentic Attraction:_______________

I like "Dating For the Real You", but I still want to experiment with a few more things. Maybe:

"dating, finding the right woman, and making things work"

"dating and relationships for intelligent men"

"Dating and relationships for the real you"

Any more suggestions are appreciated.