No! We cant help you with a problem, but we can help you see what the problem is, why its a problem, and give some advise on how to solve the problem. But in the end it all comes down to you. People have problems with 'pick-up' for the same reasons they have problems with weight loss. People just want some magic solution that will make their life better (more chicks), but they don't want to have to change themselves. You need to progress slowly, and not expect immediate results. Think of every interaction as 'investing in tomorrows interaction'. Its about knowing exactly whats happening, why its happening, how you can/did influence it, and most importantly how you can make it go better next time.