Hoeflation.

Wean1eHu11 · 2025-05-21T03:32:39+00:00

What are you hoping to achieve by talking about it? If you don’t like a girls attitude then go find one you do like. Wanking about “hoeflation” on reddit isn’t going to do anything for you

MrDownhillRacer · 2025-05-21T03:15:47+00:00

I hate using that term because it sounds so resentful and derogatory.

But if we're just talking about the phenomena of how much harder men have to work today to get a date… yeah, that's true. Women have always been more selective than men, but before online dating, people were still limited to their social circles for dates. Friends of friends, coworkers, etc. Meant dudes had more of a chance. But with online dating, we all have access to all the people in our area, and can attempt to match with the very hottest people in our areas. But that access allows women to date up a lot more than it allows men to date up, because the hot men are willing to match with much more of their female options than the hot women are. And while the men see about half of women as attractive, the women only see about 20% of men as attractive. Almost any woman can get a date, but they are dating the same few successful guys, while many other guys don't get much.

Before anybody accuses me of anything: no, I don't think this is some great injustice. It sucks for us, but something can suck without anybody doing anything wrong. Women are not doing anything wrong by dating who they want to date. That's their right and prerogative, and they don't owe us anything. It's okay and valid to be frustrated about the situation, but that's different from being angry at the women themselves.

But yeah, as a young guy, so many women older than me would ask me questions like "how are you still single?", like they couldn't wrap their heads around how a guy like me wasn't in high demand. They didn't know how the game has changed since they were young, and how the women of today are choosier than they were at that age, because they can afford to be. Made it easier to date older women in my 20s, but I mean, I was more attracted to women my age.

MarzBounty · 2025-05-20T23:40:01+00:00

my post keeps getting removed, i'm in a rut and i'm trying to get my head screwed back on feeling really discouraged, is there any way i can get some help from people on here?

Lenovo_Driver · 2025-05-21T17:42:36+00:00

I don’t believe that hoeflation is a thing.. it’s never been easier from what I’ve seen or experienced to get a woman. If anything the guys who believe in that shit are the ones who aren’t getting pussy from these supposed hoes.

If anything the real issue is dick deflation. The value of dick right now is in the gutter, and so many dudes are choosing to act and be like every other dude rather than standing out and when they do choose to stand out it’s to behave like petulant children upset they can’t get their way.

pastor-of-muppets69 · 2025-05-21T04:23:14+00:00

The solution is to date abroad. Men want to be wanted too, and the US is one of the places we are less wanted. The drive to find a partner will and is bringing more women into the US from abroad whichbwill correct the imbalance. Let's be honest, letting in a bunch of immigrants and then kicking them all out is akin to just kicking out the men and keeping all the women becuase, let's face it, who do you think is going to be able to marry into citizenship?

Leading-Ad-4085 · 2025-05-21T03:28:37+00:00

You only have to work harder if you follow the mainstream narrative. If you follow biology and the human mating dance it has become easier because most guys have become sheep's. So it's easy to stand out . My 8 lays in the last month can attest to that . And I was a virgin last year.

DreamShort3109 · 2025-05-20T22:49:37+00:00

Could you please define that?

becomesharp · 2025-05-21T20:10:08+00:00

Is this a bot account? OP literally says he wants to talk about something and then disappears

Title	Hoeflation.
Author	Coerulus7
Upvotes	0
Comments	23
Date	May 20, 2025 10:27 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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