Hello seddit!

For the longest time I've been trying to figure out the source of my AA. The answer that I get all the time is (which is the right one) is "go, approach and get rejected".

However, until now I never considered that the problem is my environment: wherever I go, I find (almost) only men. And I also spend a lot of my time by myself, which means that, besides university, I don't go out much.

It has come time to change, especially because my long-time company of friends is starting to become kinda boring (we never do anything interesting).

I want to do something interesting!

The problem now is that I can't figure out what. My issue is that I dislike many things that people of my age love, with the main being disco/clubbing and sports, so I can't figure out places with an high density of chicks (so, yes, telling me "just go out" is useless and will make you seem like a jackass)

I am a nerdy guy, the things I love don't necessarily imply social relations, i love:

-Music (I love progressive/avantgarde/experimental stuff, I play bass but it's impossible to find people to play that stuff with)

-Reading

-Videogames(this won't make me meet women, I know it perfectly)

-Sciences

And I also like figurative arts in general, even though I'm pretty ignorant. Trying out something new could be nice, but once somebody suggested me to try yoga lessons or photography courses. Yeah, I don't give a shit about either of the two.

What would you suggest me to do? I don't want to end in a sausage fest again :(

Btw, I live in a big city (few millions of inhabitants), if that helps to help.