Hey so just wanted to make this post because i’ve just really been falling down a deep end recently . I’ve recently gotten tinder and other dating apps again and get average results on tinder probably.

However, there’s multiple people on there that get shit like tons of matches per day , and convos get started at to them, and sometimes these people can literally say anything to these women without them unmatching them or even being bothered.. Only cause they’re good looking enough for them i guess. I’d say i’m at least good looking too (I get called cute and handsome a good amount sometimes) but i don’t get the same results all these other guys get…

Even if we were to text the same person the same exact thing, I would get ignored or get a completely different and dry response compared to other guys. Some guys can literally start off the convo talking all dirty and the girl would be fine with it, but if i do that to the same girl , then i wouldn’t get responses or anything or i’ll just be rejected lmao.

Anyways i’m 21 years male (asian) 5’11 basically. Idk if it’s just me but i also heard that asians have the hardest time on these types of apps , i can get a decent amount of matches, but they aren’t as attractive as the girls white or black dudes match with and even if they are, i don’t get as much success as a white or black guy does with the girls.