How can I make hugs more natural?

Barackis · 2017-11-03T16:54:28+00:00

Don't breath heavy in their ear whispering "oh fuck yeah"

Zoidberg22 · 2017-11-03T14:24:39+00:00

Don't ask for the hug initiate it.

shushravens · 2017-11-03T16:01:19+00:00

Hug the shoulders not the waist, it's more informal and less ackward in a non family setting

shpensha · 2017-11-03T15:30:53+00:00

You need to START every relationship with a hug. You just met? Give them a hug and introduce yourself if they're we're put off buy it apologize with "sorry I'm a hugger". Key is do this with everyone not just the girl you're after. You are a touchy guy now hug EVERYONE goodbye, give pats on the back, squeeze people shoulders, touch someones arm while you speak to them to get their attention. It won't be weird for you to REALLY escelate kino if she just thinks of you as a handsy guy to begin with. It might be wierd trying to escalate to hugs if you start things off with a handshake.

Fuximus · 2017-11-03T17:06:43+00:00

I don't hug a girl the first time I'm seeing her, a simple handshake will do. But once we're acquainted then I prefer hugs. Its easier hugging someone you know and there'll be less resistance from her if any.

audiophilistine · 2017-11-03T23:46:24+00:00

I'm a hugger, so this is no big deal. Spread your arms wide with one arm higher than the other. This is so one arm goes over the shoulder and one goes under their arm. This lets her do the same and its even for both people.

Go heart to heart. Don't hug at a distance, go chest to chest. Yes, you perv, you get to feel her boobies with your chest. If you're lucky she'll give them a little shake during the hug. It happens.

Wrap them up in your arms and give a little squeeze for a beat or two. Usually you part after the squeeze, but if you feel like she's holding on a little longer, look down at her. She may want a kiss too (at the end of the date, usually not just starting out).

You can test for creepy hugs by applying all the same instructions to hugging a man. If its not weird, you should be good. Only difference between girl hugs and man hugs is with guys there's a couple vigorous back slaps and the belt buckles are standard 1 foot apart.

DirkDieGurke · 2017-11-03T14:50:16+00:00

Hug your mom and then hug the girls the same way. It's a soft hug with a squeeze at the end.

NunoHimself · 2017-11-03T15:11:09+00:00

If hugs aren't congruent, don't do hugs.

DadOnDabs · 2017-11-03T18:58:29+00:00

Just hold your arms out and say "good to see you." Let them hug you. Don't everything this shit.

galactic_fury · 2017-11-03T20:20:10+00:00

You might want to hit up a female friend and ask her what is wrong with your hug, if any. Its genuinely hard to give advice on this topic without actually seeing it in action.

2017-11-05T01:38:42+00:00

Firm hug, NO BABY burp pats! Just a few seconds, anything more and she will be like "let me go". If you know her already and she's small, don't be afraid to lift her up off the ground with a hug, just don't crush her. Never be afraid to touch chests, if you give one of those distant hugs its weird.

hellalitty · 2017-11-03T17:06:37+00:00

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Title	How can I make hugs more natural?
Author	alexisisagunner
Upvotes	31
Comments	19
Date	November 3, 2017 12:35 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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